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Real love doesn't hurt others, agape love.Agape love always seeks the happiness of the beloved before their own. It is when love is mixed with our own desires that it becomes hurtful and selfish.

The reason people who love us hurt us is because everyone is first of all a sinner and therefore we hurt others in different ways. The more we let God change us, the less we will hurt others.

That is life. You have to go through all ther pain before you can be happy. and when you are in that relationship you have a stronger one and it will last and you will be happy =]

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