Why does your husband check out other women and flirt or point out attractive women in front of you?

Answer 1

Women look just as much. Come on now, we all know there is nothing more worthy than a man of about 6'2, 195-215 lbs, nice full head hair, and facial hair, broad chest, muscles, and fit also well endowed. But unfortunately some men are not built that way it does not mean they are not worthy really, it just means they lack being fully man and desirable. But we women we look. It certainly isn't very polite to YOU, but men tend to be more visual and we just can't help looking at an attractive young lady... but we need to learn how to be subtle. Yes, some men are pigs. But even still, he shouldn't be obvious and POINT. Maybe he's just trying to show you what he likes. Because they can! Probably he is subconsciously trying to make you jealous. however, he may just not realise that he is doing it, because he is a man and not very smart. Smack him up the back of the head so he goes balder faster and no woman will want him! Seriously, it's rude for him to openly do this all the time and a bad reflection on you and he realizes it hurts you. Men and women do look at the opposite sex whether single or married, but, my husband and I will comment about it to each other such as "I think that woman is stunning" and if I think she is I'll agree. I have said to him "That guy is the handsomest guy I've seen in a long time" and he often agrees with me. That doesn't mean we don't love each other. Your husband is out of line so communicate and tell him to have the courtesy to keep his remarks and thoughts to himself. You could lighten up a little too and start remarking about nice looking guys. You husband will get the picture fast!

The context is important, but one reason I know is that a husband might feel that his wife is getting too fat, and hopes that pointing out shapely women will encourage her to diet, workout, and so on. It might also be a hint to dress differently, etc.

Answer 2

Sometimes it is passive aggressive behavior to manipulate the husband's thoughts and behavior. It is a vicious cycle and both people in the marriage need to resolve it. Certainly the behavior does not reflect well on the spouse.

Answer 3

It is already his habit if your husband flert with women in front of you. However, if he loves you truly and have respect to God, he will not flert with other women.