http://www.flowermeaning.org/
the hawthorn
Lillies are a funeral flower, they represent death.
The stigma of the female flower
The Alabama state flower is the Camellia.
Is the flower you choose ;)
Adultery
school children in Wisconsin choose it to be their state flower
She can represent a dove, a flower, and many other things that have to do with beauty.
It is the national flower of Scotland.
Whatever you choose it to represent.
If you want to represent yourself one way would be to visit a law library and ask the librarian to help you choose some reference books that could help you do it yourself.
The delphinium flower represents big-heartedness and the essence of divine qualities.