Why is it so hard to make friends sometimes?

Answer 1

There can be many reasons such as shyness, not really know what to say, different interests and most times it becomes the judgment of others to place on individuals and makes it hard for them telling lies and stories about people making them feel bad and none of its true - that's when other people follow the bullies and ignore the actual people that would make the greatest friends but never get the chance.

Answer 2

Often its very difficult to find someone who's personality matches yours. Its difficult to find someone with the same life philosophy as you. Remember that friends don't always have to think and act exactly the same as you. Try talking to people about things you both have in common. You could ask them about their hobbies. Start conversations with people and after a while these often develop in to friendships.

what if that doesn't work? what if you've tried but people just don't seem toi like you?

Answer 3

Well because they are at work alot of the time and even when they are not it is only difficult for some of them but maybe because they have been through making friends so many times at school they are sick of it!

Answer 4

It really is not hard. just find something you have in common and talk about it, learn each other`s names, hang out together, and stuff like that-brains of fourth graders

Answer 5

The main problem for these people are that they are to shy , and the thought of standing and talking to a girl makes them nervous, they do not know how to start a conveesation with a girl.

Answer 6

it is acutally not hard. for some people, it is easy. mostly based on who you are, and what you do to make friends...

Answer 7

people can be sometimes be socially awkward because they are shy, or dislike other people.