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Why is it that when a married man destroys his marriage it's always the other woman who gets blame?
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∙ 13y ago
This usually depends on you're outlook and views.
Mainly, if you hear this comming from of a mistress it could always be one of two things, or even both:
1.) The mistress is lieing to protect him (due to her feelings toward their relation ship).
2.) The mistress suduced him into this with lots of effort, then after relized he may have kids andd felt guilty, or any regrets of shaking-up him and his wife's relation ship.
~Hope l could be of help.
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∙ 14y ago
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∙ 14y ago- For centuries there has always been a code between women that one did not go after another's husband (even a boyfriend) but some women choose to ignore this code of ethics. Wives blame the mistress because she is the threat; she is on the wifes turf and the wife is upset wondering what she did wrong to lose her husband to another woman and becomes jealous and enraged. Some unknown woman has come into the wife's 'safe and secure life' and taken her husband away. It should be the wife blaming the husband because even if he was approached by a woman who was interested in him a good husband would form the word 'no' no matter how great the temptation.
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∙ 13y agoSome people believe this stems from a societal "boys will be boys" attitude. Men are often not blamed because it is expected that they stray from their relationships. Women, on the other hand, are disproportionally chastised for having interests (i.e. sex) other than house and home. "The other woman" also gains a reputation as a home-wrecker because she has effectively destroyed the traditional family unit with her temptations.
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