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It is called jealousy. She is mad because he came home to you. He probably made her all kinds of promises, then realized it wasn't what he wanted. My question is why do you even know what she is saying about you? Think about that one. Either she is still in touch with your spouse or he's using the other women's so-called words about you (don't always believe she said them either) to be a spoiled inconsiderate brat and treat you with the disrespect he's treating you with. Men love sex so getting it from his wife and mistress is like a kid in a candy store. You are stuck with a malcontent, that has never matured, and you should tell him to hit the road! Don't sit there and take it and wonder about yourself and what other women think of you. Women that are confident in themselves don't need to go after married men. Once in a blue moon a woman may be be honestly conned by a guy saying he's divorced. Until she sees those divorce papers, don't a woman should never believe him! The mistress really gets the worst of it in ways. The wife knows what her husband is, and the silly mistress thinks she can tame this guy or treat him better than what he has been treated like. Little does she know half the time the cheater is giving her one pack of lies and she hasn't had to put up with his behavior. Just wait! She'll get enough of him too! I was married before, and the next thing I knew I had the mistress phoning me wanting to have a chat with me about MY OWN HUSBAND! My husband was sitting in the front room with a big smirk on his face enjoying every bit of the conversation until I said, (not exactly quoted) "You can have him and I'll tie a big fat red bow on his butt for you!" He was shocked and I took the tools away from him as far as pitting his mistress against me. I didn't play the game, moved on, divorced him and met someone new. I've never regretted it. I hope you consider the same route to take. Good luck Marcy

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Q: Why is it that your spouse fools around on you and if or when you get back together the one he fooled around with can only call you down even though you never called her down?
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