Why should you not be a lesbian?
Since this calls for an opinion, here are several from our contributors:
If you are a lesbian, you were born that way, so it's not a question of whether you should be one: you are one. In the modern world, that is not necessarily a bad thing. Be proud of who you are and live a healthy and productive life. If some people don't understand or refuse to accept you, that is their problem and you are not to blame.
There is in fact no reason why one should not live as a lesbian if it happens that one has that particular orientation. A loving relationship is of the greatest importance to any human being, and only those who are fearful or prejudiced or blinded by superstition or ignorant buffoons would say otherwise.
You should definitely not become a lesbian because it is a sin. If you become a lesbian you might not be accepted by friends and family and the people you love. you can hurt people emotionally. You can also ruin your chance of having children unless you adopt. Being a lesbian can also get you sent to hell unless you repent and stop doing that disgusting sin. I would not advice you to become a lesbian it is a huge sin.
Maybe because you're not one. Either you are or your aren't. From what I understand, it is not a choice. Just an opinion from a heterosexual.
You can't become a lesbian. Either you are a lesbian already, or you're not.
of course! their the same as you are, just lesbian <><><><><> Ofcourse you should you should be proud to know somebody that is a lesbian proud that you know somebody that is different
If a girl is having sensations or suspects that she may be lesbian, then she should try to have an experience and (cautiously) explore her curiosity. She should not push herself to anything rash, or make herself uncomfortable.
You should live your life.
explore your feelings. you will know if you are. I am 15 and a lesbian. you have nothing to be ashamed of.
That your a lesbian
Assuming you are not a lesbian and are asking how to make sure she doe not make a move on you, tell her that you are okay with her decision to be a lesbian, but don't make any moves on you. Tell her you still want to be friends but you don't want to date her. She should understand.
If you are a lesbian and you want to come out to people then you should probably make sure that they are ok with it first.
Forget about her and move on. You can't make someone switch and shouldn't try.
Get some help.
No, you shouldn't.
A lesbian can deny her sexuality, but there is no real "avoiding" it. Sexuality is an intimate part of who we are, and there is no switching sexualities. It is perfectly natural to not want to be a lesbian anymore, especially given the homophobic attitude that is so prevalent today, but one should celebrate who they are.
You should tell her nothing until you are absolutely certain she is also a lesbian. If she's not, you're wasting precious energy and setting yourself up for heartache.
You dont just become a lesbian. Maybe you are just curious about what it is like to be with a same sex partner. Which is completely different.
What should a lesbian do to get over with her relationship with a married woman who lied and cheated on her for another lesbian?
She should make a promise to herself never to date another married woman. It's a matter of personal dignity.
If you really like her even after hearing that she is a lesbian .Then you must confront that girl surely and try to make her your best friend as nothing more can happen if she is a lesbian.
Hey, Well you should tell her how you feel and see what she says because not all lesbian relations are signs that you friend is a lesbian it means she is experimenting especially at a young age, so tell her dude and see what she says!!! =D GOOD LUCK!
Only if you are a lesbian too
A person's sexual orientation has nothing to do with whether you should hang out with them.
It depends if you have tea people magazine well you should stop because they lie she is just a woman an if she is lesbian it's none of your buisness say you were lesbian or gay would you like it of people were asking you about it? And no she is not.
Lesbian couples should be free to marry like a couple composed of a man and a women because despite what certain people believe lesbian marriage doesn't have anything to do with religion. If lesbians are allowed to marry it should concern anyone other than the two individuals that are getting married.
Should a female Asian lesbian who knows a white guy who likes her a lot but do not know each other personally should the Asian woman turn straight and become ex lesbian and go out with the white guy?
Its up to her (you)
Don't ask...... or just point to a random pretty girl and ask her what she thinks of that girl. you should be able to tell if she is lesbian by her answer
She absolutely is.well i actually that is what people say and she has no love interests.so i do not think she is one.but i am not that sure.i think she should not be a lesbian.but it is ok to be a lesbian.
no, that would simply mean you should be bisexual. meaning you are not fully lesbian, but that you enjoy company of both men and women, not just women.
What should you do if you have noticed a big change in your boyfriend when he brings the detailer home from work but she is a lesbian?
You should talk to him.
Why should you do anything? A person's love life is their own business.
I can see no reason why not. Lesbian or not, they are females so should supervise the female locker rooms. Just as males supervise the male locker room.
Yes, yes you should. It's part of who you are. I'm bi and I'm not ashamed. Be proud of who you are.
No. In fact NO ONE who wants to be a parent should ever have to miss out on it.
yes. it means she is a lesbian.
Talk to her about it and discuss how the two of you want to live.
When you look at a girl. She may be cute or has a certain something about her. It's mostly that should you or should you not that makes the difference. If you find yourself thinking romantic or sexual things about some of them and have no interest in boys for whatever reason, then you might be lesbian.
You should approach her and tell her your feelings for her and you can start to date since you love her already.
No you should not. It is who they are if they are lesbian, if they are not then you don't need to be refering to girls as that. Sexuality is a very personal thing and we all have things that we don't want other people to comment on so we should respect other peoples right to privacy and to their own sexuality and not use it as a means to hurt them.
Just tell her straight out: "I am gay/lesbian/homosexual." Give her time to let it sink in (if she didn't already think so) and you should be able to continue as usual.
No, not all straight women turn to a lesbian lifestyle in their lifetime. However, there is a small percentage of straight women who have had bad luck with men in general and may choose to have a lesbian partner; or in a small percentage some younger women are talked into being bisexual or made to believe they should be in a lesbian relationship.
No. A lesbian is a female who likes other females. A male can have a sex change to appear female, but he is still a male without a penis. If a male wants to become a lesbian, that means he likes females. Seems he should leave things alone and get on with life.
WELL IF SHE/HE WOULD TEASE YOU THEN THATS NOT A FRIEND!
It depends on your personal situation. If you are not sure, you should seek counseling.
Depeds on what they like and places the want to go. try the movies.
* You have to decide if you are bisexual or gay and if so then you can discuss how you feel and ask her out.
If you are a girl and in a relationship with a girl and you are lesbian, she will probably already suspect this. After all, you would not usually be going out with a girl unless you were attracted to them. If you initially told your girlfriend that you are bisexual, but want to tell her now that you are lesbian, this should not be a challenge. A simple talk with her will make her aware… Read More
Even if she is a lesbian is it a crime? We should be very careful how we judge others. Adulterers, fornicators, witches, gossips etc. are not been preached about. How come it is always homosexuals. To me being a lesbian is not a sin, but if you are please stick to one partner to stop the spread of HIV-Aides.
We don't know exactly why people are lesbian or gay. But it's definitely fixed at a very early age, and probably before birth. There are thousands and thousands of gay women who are mothers, so if your mother is a lesbian, you are not alone. This of course doesn't have anything to do with whether you are lesbian, gay or straight. You don't inherit this. And you should be proud of your mum for being… Read More
don't worry, i watch loads of this stuff on youtube and I'm not a lesbian. i mean, you could be but if you like guys then you should be straight.
I don't think there is such thing as lesbian training. If you happen to like females, then you like female. There should be no training. This just looks like your going to training to be a lesbian just because.
Divorce her because she could never love you the way you love her.
How the heck should anybody know?!I hope you're not Lesbian.
i think you should see a doctor for help