Because, nobody wants help to stay with somebody who abuses you.
Before getting a divorce, couples should attend marriage counseling to work on their problems.
If you are in a bad relationship, you should get out of it. If you see areas of improvement which could easily be changed, go to counseling before you take the matter any further. If the relationship is abusive, you have the right to get out of the relationship.
If he is really abusive go to the police! You should go to counseling or something.
Go to couples counseling to resolve your problems.
You should leave the relationship. You can watch this video to get clarity on domestic violence and abuse in a relationship. youtu.be/M9U21UoSpnc
Divorce her if you can't cope with the infidelity; if you think you can make the relationship work, you two should seek couples counseling. If you have children, family counseling... & yes, they do need to know because it does affect them & they actually do absorb more than you think.
Why would you even think about going back to an abusive relationship? Unless you want to get beat on for the rest of your life.
You should definitely go. An abusive relationship is unhealthy for you both physically and emotionally. If you continue to stay with that abusive person, you will more than likely end up being attracted to more abusive people in the future. In fact some abusive relationships can lead to suicide and/or being murdered.
Abusive relationships are some of the most difficult ones to resolve. THis type of relationship assumes that one partner is abusive and continues to be so because there is no response to the abuse. The difference here centers on "self-assurance." The abusive partner continues his or her behavior because there is no response. I can not suggest how the abused party should respond because in most instances they feel diminished. This situation can only be resolved through extended counseling, if at all.
Well if you're afraid no one will believe you get a little camera hide it somewhere and if he starts beating you up you will have proof. Then take it to the cops and he will go to jail and you move somewhere far away and start a new life. Verbal abuse can be as harmful as physical abuse and should not be tolerated by anyone, especially someone who represents law enforcement. But you know that already. The question is, would you stay with him if he weren't abusive? If you love him and want the relationship to get better, perhaps you could think about couples counseling.
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
to see if you should keep going with your relationship or not and if things aren't going great with your relationship you should see a counselor