because they may not want to try or the hate you for cheating/ the little thing like not leaving the toilet led down.
Save The Marriage (http://www.savethemarriage.com/index.php) has lots of great tips for you and your partner to recover your marriage. I would also recommend perhaps seeing a local marriage counselor to resolve these issues with a professional.
The first thing to do is not use 'you' or 'I' as taking steps to save a marriage should be done as a couple. Men often fear they will be solely singled out as being the problem in the marriage or, they prefer to keep their private life private so it may be a hard sell regarding the husband. Marriage Counseling is a good method to learn where the problems lie in the marriage and the Counselor will not accuse one or the other, but get to the root of the problem and give the couple individual instructions as to how to treat their partner and solve the problems that should arise at the present time and in the future. No marriage is perfect and all marriages go down some bumpy roads, but if two people are truly in love then they can get the help to strengthen their marriage. It is also important that the spouse who wants to get the help takes a good look at their partner to decide if their partner will listen to reason or even want the help. If the partner does not want the help then there is no use wasting the money going to a marriage counselor and you would have to consider separating for awhile to give each other space to find out if you truly love each other enough to try and start saving the marriage.
Impossible. Now it all depends on what you want. If you want to save your marriage, try to convince your partner into seeking marital counselling, this would be the difficult part, when this is done all shall be fine. Keep pace with him/her try to understand his/her needs as you're the most motivated one, but still it's better to have someone outside to help both of you deal with your marriage.
The reason most couples with problem marriages cannot save their marriage without professional help is because neither can 'see the forest for the trees' which means they are too involved in the problems to realize what they are and that is why a marriage counselor is needed because he/she will help you sort out problems in the marriage as well as tools to strengthen the marriage by learning good communication skills.
Depending on the relationship, a man can try and save his marriage by acting compassionately. A man can try and romance his wife to try and make things work by putting the spark in their marriage. Showing interest in their spouse can also help a man save a rocky marriage.
You cannot save your marriage based on general advice from the internet. You need to be able to communicate with each other and get to the root of your problems. It might be helpful to enlist the help of a counsellor
No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was at fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
It takes the two people in the marriage to make it want to work. If you are willing and your partner isn't then your counselor is correct. Stats show that women are far more willing to seek out marriage counseling (along with their partner) to try to save their marriage, than males. Even if the male goes along with his spouse, he usually refuses to cooperate and will put the blame on his partner far quicker than himself, or, he just doesn't want to work on the marriage because he feels it's easier to move on, or, he may have a mistress. I was married before as well and even though my ex was a woman chaser, mental/physical abuser I gave it my best shot by making an appointment with a marriage counselor (my ex had promised to give it a go) but he didn't bother to turn up. I got the message loud and clear! Good luck Marcy
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yes, arranged marriage is successfull bcoz in arranged marriage we get bless from our parents, if any problem create in our marred life then our parents help to solve this problem and save this relationship.
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It takes both people working hard to fix a marriage, so yes you will need your wife's help. You should talk to her about it. There is no good relationship without communication.