Why would a man tell his wife he is in love with another woman?

Answer 1

• This man has an underlying problem(s) that he is not dealing with and will continue to make foolish choices until he chooses to pursue resolution; he has to want this himself.
• This man entered into the marriage under false pretenses; he was fooling himself, he was fooling you, probably both.
• This man is the one with the problem(s), he is the only one who can do anything about it. The real choice that you have to make is do you think that he is capable of dealing with himself; are you willing to put up with him until (if ever) he does; can you do more with your life than enduring a constant battering of your self esteem.
• The problem is his, the choices are yours.

• Your husband told you he is in love with another woman or may think he is and at least he is being honest. Most men cheat and hope they don't get caught at it. The best thing you can do is let him know you are not willing to share him with another woman and tell him 'there's the door!' This is a risk as he may not come back, but if you don't plead with him and let him see this woman, men often find the grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't try to get revenge on him, but let him go if that is his choice and also remind him that you will be seeing other men. If you are both meant to be together then you be. Give it a year before you file for divorce and if you have children be sure he pays child support.