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This is a good question that do happen to lots of couples having problem. When married man end up having an affair, first thing he will feel are excitement, nervousness, and thrilled because of the other woman who is not his wife. Most married men will not feel bad or guilty, it's what they want to do. Maybe some spouses do feel guilty at first but not bad enough to make them stop. The only way they will stop feeling guilty is to go right back to their mistress and continued their sin. And the reason why he told you he hates himself for what he did is he got caught and now his wife is probably wanted a divorce. Who wouldn't right?

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Q: Why would a married man not feel guilty till after about 4 mths into affair then after getting caught 6 mths later hates himself for it?
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