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Why would a married man tell his ex mistress its still hard to talk to her since the affair?
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∙ 13y ago
It is hard to talk to someone specially if this two people had history together. When a married man realize what he did, you can be sure that it will linger in his mind. Most men are weak and because of their weakness it gives them leverage to do stupid things that will hurt people he knows. Don't make a big issue to what he was telling you, he is the one that's trying to correct some of his mistakes towards his wife. If I were you, I will leave him alone and do not contact him anymore no matter what he is telling you. He is trying to let you know that his having a problem, so you will feel bad for him, don't let him.
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 13y agoShame , fear , or the possibilty of being attracted to her all over again . If he's serious about being faithful, he should remove himself from her vicinity if at all possible.
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Who's problem is it to resolve if the other woman is still contacting the wife and the married man she had the affair with?
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
What is a mistress?
A mistress is a woman who is single, divorced, or sometimes still married. She gets involved with another married man.
What is to have an affair?
to have an affair is to be married but still have a relationship [love/sex etc.] with another person.
Should a married man have a relationship with his ex mistress if they have a child together and he is still married to the person he cheated on?
no.
Do you still use the word affair when one of the persons in the relationship is dating someone else but they are not married?
No, only use the word affair when married, if not married it would be called cheating.
Does it mean anything when a married man tells his ex mistress that he doesn't regret the affair he had with her?
it means that he still has feelings for her but is scared to tell the truth about it. B: Most married men that had an affair will never regret what he did. It doesn't take a brain surgeon to know if the married man regret the affair, he will not start to cross that forbidden path. Who would regret a new surrounding, new face, different scenery, new scent and most of all a new love that he never felt before.
What would a married man think if his friend at work waited and walked out with his ex mistress everyday after work but yet he doesn't talk to her anymore?
There is still something going on or unresolved feelings. Maybe your friend is trying to save you from yourself.ANSWER:First of all that person who walk with his ex mistress is a very nice person. Either your the ex mistress and your doing this so your ex married lover will be jealous. The reason why you become the ex mistress is his affair with you was discovered, so now his trying to change and resolve the mistakes he done to his wife. My best solution to you is leave him alone and find a man who is single.But if you are the married man with the affair, don't you think its time to settle the mistakes you've done to your wife and move on. You don't have the rights to be thinking or even be jealous if the woman you had the affair was moving on. She is not your wife and focus your time to your wife..
Does a mistress ever physically attact the wife?
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
What percentage of married man return to their mistresses if their wife leaves them after cheating occurred?
Sorry, no percentage. Its documented that married men very seldom leave their wife for a mistress. If they do leave their wifes they never marry the mistress but find someone else to built a new relationship with. They are double standard creatures the same rules does not apply to them. He would always wonder if you are having an affair with someone else. Even if he know in his heart he was the first married man you had an affair with he will never trust you. Look on the internet: Cheating husbands. You will thoroughly and not gently be brought back to reality. Best of luck.
Does the wife usually tell her husband not to talk to the mistress anymore after the affair has been discovered or does the husband make that choice?
You shouldn't even stay married to him if that happens! ANSWER: I did mine, and yes our husband has the choice to do it if they want to. But the question is will it be the right thing to do if the husband still kept the communication from his mistress ( ex). If the spouse wont stop, this is a sign that no matter what you ask him he will ignore you, is showing that he can't live without being connected with his mistress.
How do you deal with the hurt when you had an affair with a married man and he is back with his wife but you feel depressed because you still love him and all of you live in the same small town?
* As tempting as it can be for some women it's not a good idea to have an affair with a married man because he will do one of two things ... go back to her wife or breakup with his mistress to be free to do as he wishes. There is an extremely low percent of men with mistress' that will end up in marriage. You had the affair because you are unhappy with yourself (or your husband if you are married) and it's time for you to reflect upon why you are so unhappy. There are always solutions to most problems. It isn't going to be easy because you live in a small town, but you will have to decide to move on so you are free to decide what you want out of life. He has made his decision to stay with his wife. Don't sit around moping and start going out with friends and dating or, if married start working on your marriage problems. Whether or not you have a boyfriend or husband you are still cheating ... you are having an affair behind this man's wife's back!
What does a married man think about his ex mistress when he has to see her at work everyday but is not talking to her but looking at her every now and then?
sometimes,possible because he still have feeling for his ex B: Some married man might but they will never admit it because of the pride and dignity that they have. The only person that might know is the mistress. If the married man fell in love with his mistress because everything is new, different than what he have with his old wife, yes he will think and missed her. With the mistress, gosh she will be thinking of her ex lover. She will missed the time that they spend together away from his family and friends. There are some mistress that will have hard time when her affair is over. When you loose someone you love, your heart will break either you are the wife or the mistress.
