Because he is living out a fantasy that boosts his ego and gives him a power trip that she is in when they are together but in reality he wants a wife and the family life. Well lets face it he wants it all. greedy selfish insecure men will do this...to make them feel good about themselves.
because he wants to talk about it
He wants to stay married to his wife and is using the mistress for extramarital sex purposes.
Tell them both what you did and get delt with.
Has what ? Need more info . ANSWER: She is right, we need more information. Are you wondering if this married man has a mistress or transmitter decease.
This married man do not know what he wanted to do, either he wants to keep his family together, and break up with his mistress. Or he wants to work his marriage and see if he can keep the mistress on the side. Either way, he is playing fire on both side. Some married man will know what they want if he get caught cheating, and there are some that will keep both wife and his mistress and take my words for it, he is taking you for a ride.
No. If he loved you he would leave his wife. Now he might be infatuated but only wants you as his mistress. Tell him he can call you after the divorce.
Why would anyone on earth with sound mind and heart think of doing that.
If he's serious about his marriage and trying to avoid the ex-mistress, he should be grateful to avoid the confrontation.
I've been in this situation too, except it was with a boyfriend. I was his girlfriend at the time. My ex not only cheated on me but another girl as well. He kept TWO relationships hidden from both of us. We both dumped him and were very angry at HIM (now the other girl and I are friends). There are different situations: a) If the mistress knows he is married; b) The mistress has no idea that he is married; c) If the mistress knows that he is married then honestly she is stupid; because if you are the mistress and he is cheating on his wife, why wouldn't he do the same exact thing to you. b) If the mistress has NO idea that he was married and the wife finds out, she may confront the mistress or she may confront her husband. It depends of the wife. WOMEN ARE WORTH MORE THAN A CHEATING GUY; DONT STAY WITH THEM AND THINK THAT THEY ARE GOING TO CHANGE FOR YOU, THEY WON'T. THEY ONLY REALLY CARE ABOUT THEIR OWN NEEDS.
I don't think so maybe another couple years or so and then tell them
When a married man tells his mistress he has never kissed anyone as long or as much as her is lying through his teeth. Married men when single had at least one or more girlfriends and then they chose the girl they married so passions were high at the time. Married men tell mistresses what they want to hear because it is all about sex. The statistics for a mistress having a married man get a divorce and marry her is extremely low so he is basically using her for his own selfish needs and the mistress ends up losing her self respect.
i would tell the husband its 'me or her' and let him choose!!