Why would a narcissist be having a meal with you and talking about getting married then leave before the meal ended to get a restraining order against you?
Maybe he/she didn't like what you said. He is playing games and
really doesn't want to be with you. What could someone have said
that would go from talk about marrying someone to getting a
restraining order. I could see maybe deciding to wait, break up etc
but not that harsh. I agree with the person who said he is paying