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Why would a narcissist be mad that you slept with another man when he told you he used you and dumped you?

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2006-01-11 01:19:43
2006-01-11 01:19:43

Because it is all about him. When he is no longer the focus of attention then the anxiety builds. He needs to be at the center....always! After My N broke up with me he stuck around and basically "watched" me and the moment he thought I had been with another man it infuriated him and he was gone. It's a control thing I think. Ns like to think they are the best sex you have ever had. They also like to think that you are so besotted and reliant on them that you would not even entertain the thought of sleeping with someone else. So when you do, whether you have been used and dumped by the N or not, they are angry because 1) Their ego has taken a battering 2) They realise their control over you has wained 3) They percieve you as a whore and this disgusts them Regardless, the N will always be mad with you for something whether you are with them or not.

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