Why would a wife stay with a cheating husband after catching him 6 separate times with 6 different women and choose to believe all general excuses exp ego man's a man her fault he was seduced etc?

Answer 1

Why? Some possibilities:

* She can't face being on her own. * She is comfortable in the role of a victim. * She has too low self-esteem to believe she deserves better. * She thinks it is her religious or moral duty to forgive him and stand by him. * She gets something she wants from him by holding it over him. * She is weak and indecisive. * She doesn't care. * She is relieved of pressure to perform sexually while getting the other benefits of marriage. * She is unfaithful too. * She thinks she is better off this way than she would be if she took some action. In other words, there are all kinds of possible reasons, maybe even more than one. Ultimately it's this simple: she feels better off where she is than she would feel if she ditched him. And when the balance shifts, she will do something.

Meanwhile it is nobody else's business to judge her or tell her what to do because she and only she knows what she has to lose or gain, and only she (and her children, if any) has to live with the consequences of her decision. A friend or relative can help her go through with what she has decided but cannot decide for her.