Why would wife leave you and kids for coworker get pregnant move in with him then decide she wants to come home and beg to come back?

Answer 1

A wife who engages in this type of behavior clearly knows that her actions are completely wrong. Instead of properly addressing the issues that have caused problems in her marriage, she takes the easy and cowardly way to avoid dealing with them. As a result, she has displayed a total lack of respect for her husband as well as dishonoring her vows in order to pursue her selfish desires. Most likely, she sought refuge from her marriage problems by talking to her coworker. She became emotionally attached to this guy and decided to have an affair with him. Since she enjoyed her time with her coworker more than being at home, she left thinking that her life would be much better. In an effort to "secure her new man", she deliberately ceased from using her current Birth Control method so that she could bear a child with him. Like alot of women, she thought that a child would coerce the coworker to commit to her, but she found out that her plan wasn't guaranteed. The coworker dumped her and now, she's seeking the support of her husband as her safety net. What she may or may not realize is that she has totally humiliated her husband and family. All that she cares about is herself. The husband needs to let her seek support from the coworker so that she could "woman up" and handle her responsibilities instead dumping her disasters on others.