He can't. A man can't say anything about a good woman, to do that would be a hypocrite. He knows you were good to him and to say anything bad about you would make him look like the bad one because he let you go or rather you let him go.
AnswerI think the word "narcissist" has been wrongly used in a lot of cases and especially in this case. A narcissist would not only not admit such a thing to anyone else, but is in denial about this to themselves. I think other things went on (each relationship is complex) and you split-up. He obviously still cares about you and admires you. He sounds like a decent enough guy because he sure has had opportunities to bash you and hasn't. This guy is giving compliments. Doesn't sound like the narcissistic type to me.Cuz theirs nothing bad 2 say = Answer = I believe that he said nothing because he had her on the back burner, we'll say, in case he ever needed her again! My ex narcissist said vile things about one ex (whom I found out took him to court and won) The other girl ex girlfriend he said nothing to me about. Guess who he is with now? Also because it would make him look bad. He has to be the hero and he will say things like its just didn't work out or we are great friends when in fact he was totally abusive to their ex. So they want to come off the good guy while the ex will do the work of making themselves look bad if he was abusive to her. Putting down your ex in front of the new girlfriend just looks bad and petty. Narcissists think they are above being petty.
maybe because you never say anything?
why not?
It's difficult to prove a negative. If a narcissist finds out some of those characteristics, all he has to do is be a good actor. Not being a narcissist is the only quality one could have to prove one is not a narcissist. There is no act a person can perform or one thing a person can do that would prove once and for all that the person is not and never has been and never will be a narcissist. Yet all the same, if you are not a narcissist, other people will recognize this fact, just as if you are, that too will come to light. Empathy. Narcissist's do not posess it nor do they understand it.
His cellphone ! they would never be without a mirror!!!!!!!!!
Yes actually. Narcissists thrive on attention and only care about themselves. A narcissist, will talk to you if it benefits them in some way. IE. Attention.
It is doubtful that a narcissist would be faithful for long to his girlfriend. They love themselves most of all and have trouble with long term relationships.
Because he is projecting how he feels about himself on her. It's as simple as that.
No, no narcissist pig, just a plain dumb insensitive one.
Why would some one "wait." 10 years? it doesn't matter who you are waiting for if the person loved you they would demonstrate that love right away. So, if some one decides to put their life on hold for a narcissist i suggest to go get professional help as to why you would do such a thing. Plus, I think you would give as your life will change. A Narcissist thinks you have nothing better to do!!
A narcissist would not want help because he or she would not think there was anything wrong. Therefore, you can't help a narcissist; even when a narcissist is court ordered into therapy, there is little a professional can do to help a person change this personality type.
well the only right thing to do would to be to tell him in a very nice way. now the bad and mean way would to avoid him and never talk to him. but the best thing to do would be to do the right thing
Yes he would, but take a peice out of him and he'll take a chunk out of you, best thing to do to a narcissist is to ignore him, that will affect him more than anything.