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Will an abusive person still be abusive in a new relationship and tell their new partner their ex was to blame for their breakup?
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∙ 15y ago
That is one of the signs of an abusive partner, they blame others for their own actions. Abuse works in a cycle where the abuser needs control and doesn't regret what they did because it hurt another person. It doesn't matter what excuse they gave you, the excuses he gave his ex for the beatings would have been the same as the ones their giving you as to why its not their fault. Abuse is all about power, "who's the boss", not about "the victim did something so bad I lost my temper". The abuser sets the victims up for attacks, find excuses as to why the victim has to be shown who's boss, when it could be as simple as the fact that the victim was 15 mins late after driving home from work, the abuser will jump to conclusions and find a reason for the victim to "obey" them. == == An abusive person is an abusive person. Wy they broke up comes down to 2 people that couldn't work things out. Get the hell away from an abusive person or you will suffer. Humans are creatures of habit, they don't just change overnight. An abuser will be even nicer to the new partner AT THE START but since he or she got away with past abusive behaviour even if a short period of time, they have become accustomed to that and will only increase the voltages with the new person....pretty soon you may even be told, " well so and so didnt do that" they may even compare the new woman to the previous one making you feel as though at first your way better but then will completely devalue you and say your even worse...this is a good possibility and if not they will use many other tactics to wear you down where you feel like all the life from you is gone......trust me......i know.
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Why does an abusive boyfriend get mad when you allow your ex-husband to get you upset?
Because he is abusive. Partner abuse is a treatable sickness, but not always curable. Staying with an abusive partner does not help them to become a better person.
What does staying with another friends relationship after your breakup mean?
Staying with another friend's relationship after your breakup means that you still have feelings for the other person.
Can a man from non-abusive upbringing become an abuser if with a partner who grew up in an abusive home with no therapy at all?
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
Why would someone be abusive in a relationship?
sometimes a person might feel like their partener is slipping away or they don't want anyone else to be with their partner so they might be abusive because thhey don't want to lose them so like a parent might hit a child to correct them or because they want the kid to do what they want, that person mgith hit their partner to keep thme to themsleves
If a person changes their mind too much does that mean they are very insecure and should you break up with them?
* If your partner continues to have an on and off relationship with you and has a problem with commitment then it's immaturity and they are not ready to commit and yes, you should breakup if you are looking for a more mature relationship.
Would you leave your partner if he or she threatned to commit suicide in an event of a breakup?
That is a serious question. Do you want to be with them? If so, you need to speak with your partner about getting therapy of some sort. If you aren't interested in spending any more of your life with this person as your partner, I personally feel, that staying with them out of pity or fear is inappropiate for both of you. If it is an abusive (any form)or toxic relationship, it is imperative for you to get out sooner than later. If you are in true fear that your partner would harm themself then speak with someone that cares for them (a family member, clergy, friend, etc.) and make sure they are aware of this person's threat. This way you are safe and the partner can get help. I wish you the best of luck.
When you are bipolar does that make you abusive?
It could. But not every Bipolar person is abusive. It should however, never be an excuse for abuse. A person who is abusive Bipolar or not, is wrong in what they are doing. Seek help if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship/situation.
How can you get rid of an unwanted relationship?
it depends , if its your relationship, breakup with the person . if its someone eles , leave it alone and let them figure it out
Why can't people leave abusive relationship's?
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
What kind of qualities in a person when they can't communicate a breakup relationship?
go back to china
What should you do if you threw your abusive partner out of the house but you feel worse instead of better?
Of course you're going to feel guilt or remorse. That's because you have a history with this person and a conscious. But does not mean you should let your abusive partner move back in. It is unsafe for you and for him or her. The best thing for you to do is keep your abusive partner out of the house and slowly lose contact with him or her.
What are abusive relationships?
Well, refer to the name, a relationship, that involves abuse. It can be towards the male or female, if you are in an abusive relationship, leave the person and/or call the police or abuse hotline..idk it though
