Of course it could, and also your marriage, too!
Talk with him about the possibility of dating hypothetically to see if he would be interested in you. You could always play it off as if a relationship would ruin your friendship.
Ask yourself this. 'If i tell him i love him, will it improve the friendship, or ruin it?'. Why ruin a perfectly good friendship with a kiss?
because you are such a good friend that they dont wanna date break up and then ruin a good friendship! or they love you as a brother and best friend and its just wierd dating your brother! or your not her type!
lol i can answer my own question
they didn't want to ruin their friendship
in a lot of ways, if someone is that selfish that they cant put there friend before them, then they are not a good friend.
It means that your really close with your friend and he has started to have feelings for you. But it also means that it could ruin your friendship unless he has strong feeling for you. You need to think it through and find out if you have feelings for him, too.
say I just became that way that I didn't want to ruin our friendship
Don't! That's horrible and could ruin both your friendship and your friend's relationship.
No, your friend will blame you for telling her. I know you are trying to be a friend, but she won't listen and you will ruin your friendship. She will need you when it does come out.
no. it will ruin the friendship.
You are dating him - not your friend. If you like him then don't let your friend's opinion ruin your relationship. It's what you think of him that's important. A good friend will support your relationships and be happy for you.