Will guys not ask a girl out if they think she is uptight about sex?

Answer 1

* Some guys may not ask a girl out that isn't into sex and that doesn't mean she's "up-tight" but has high moral standards and there is nothing wrong with that. No one should make a person feel "uncool" or "up-tight" because they refuse to bed anything that walks around in long pants. There is nothing written in stone that says a girl has to go to bed with a guy she dates once or twice or even six or seven times. Thankfully there are more guys that respect girls who don't sleep around at the drop of a hat even though it's tough on them sexually. If they love you then they'll wait and it's that simple! Some of these same young men that think it's just fine to entice their date into having sex are the same guys that will talk about her behind her back and think less of her. Men never went blind from not having sex! * It depends on the guy. I am a guy and I would NOT ask any girl out if she was uptight about sex. Sex is one of the very most important parts of a relationship, and is really the whole reason people date. Despite the fact that most people claim they want a relationship, the only real reason they want to date is because of hormones making them want to have sex, therefore making them want to get closer to someone so that they can. If this was not true, then why wouldn't people want a relationship before puberty? * While sex is certainly high on the list whether a teen or older, what is more important is to take things slow and easy and get to know that person first. Relationships are about sharing one's hopes and dreams; feeling that they can tell that person anything; feeling safe with that person and 'trust' is the ultimate clincher in the game of sex! It's 'the chase' that makes having sex all worthwhile and when two people are comfortable with each other then they can choose their own time to have a sexual relationship.