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Because the narcissist always has to have someone to kick around. As long as you're available to kick around, he's happy to keep up some sort of relationship. As soon as you stand up on your own two feet,, he starts to look for someone else to kick.
He came to look in your mirror.
If you want to move on the best thing to do is cut all ties, keep your distance and leave him in the past and move on.
Give him the best sexual experience of his life.
OF COURSE! Mines is doing that now. They'd do anything to make themselves look like the saint. That is classic narcissist behavior. You have to be pretty careful in knowing who your friends are and who the narcissist has gotten to. I hate to say it but in order to figure out what the narcissist is up to, you have to think like a narcissist. Of course that makes you look bad, like you ARE a narcissist (you've probably picked up some narcissist behaviors being around one anyway) so BE CAREFUL. My narcissist called this game "Ex Caliber" after King Arthur's sword. He said people who were pure and of good intentions could slip past his defenses. Translation: You better make yourself look better than the narcissist and dodge the mud he's flinging if you want to keep your friends!
You keep reminding her that you are her child after all. Tell her that you are updated version of her!
Well, with my boyfriend we curl up with a bottle of wine and watch some trashy TV. I keep moving closer to him and then give him a kiss (a long, tongued one) then we usually keep kissing until I start unzipping his trousers! So on and so forth. Hope this helped!! XXX
They feed off of YOUR reactions.
YES.....Even if you did give him the answer he wants ......PARTICULARLY if you give him the answer he wants. Reality has little imact on the Narcissist, only their ever-present and rapidly changing needs or drives. Keep reading (over and over)the several good books on Narcissism until you understand how someone different from yourself thinks and behaves.
They will not change, or even realize they are a narcissist. And you will get more and more annoyed.
Your ex-boyfriend may miss you, but you have to keep moving. Keep in mind there is always a reason why they are an ex.
If he was a narcissist, then nothing you did could ever be a good as he knew he "deserved." So he looked elsewhere, which he'll probably keep doing for the rest of his life, no matter how well the woman he's with treats him.He wanted something other than what he got from you. I think it's the same answer regardless of his psychiatric diagnosis, if any. It would be harder to please a narcissist than the average person. The person trying to please a narcissist wouldn't get empathy back, among other things, so it might be for the best to have a narcissist leave you. But I don't think the trigger for that happening is much different than any other relationship.