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Would a narcissist ex-boyfriend talk about his ex to mutual friends in a way that makes it appear he is decent and moral when in reality he is trying to just take another dig at her?
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∙ 18y ago
OF COURSE! Mines is doing that now. They'd do anything to make themselves look like the saint. That is classic narcissist behavior. You have to be pretty careful in knowing who your friends are and who the narcissist has gotten to. I hate to say it but in order to figure out what the narcissist is up to, you have to think like a narcissist. Of course that makes you look bad, like you ARE a narcissist (you've probably picked up some narcissist behaviors being around one anyway) so BE CAREFUL. My narcissist called this game "Ex Caliber" after King Arthur's sword. He said people who were pure and of good intentions could slip past his defenses. Translation: You better make yourself look better than the narcissist and Dodge the mud he's flinging if you want to keep your friends!
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Can a narcissist handle rejection?
No because rejection means you know who and what they really are and know all their true self. They think they are god and that one cannot live without them. They believe that you are the one who needs them, when in reality it is the other way around. Once a narcissist always a narcissist. They cannot change
Will a narcissist that hasn't changed in 10 years since the day you met him all of a sudden change for another woman?
No a narcissist will always be a narcissist. Don't get involved, you are free now. Be thankful you have escaped the worse time in your life and can move on. the narcissist wil try to make it look and sound like he is so much better to her, because that will further his need to make you feel like you don't matter, if you did, you would have treated you well, too. in reality, he is treating her just as bad as he did you, and probably rubs you in her face, too!
What kind of pleasure does the narcissist feel with his own behavior?
Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.Since the narcissist has built his existence on a completely false view of himself he feels extreme satisfaction with his performance and basks in the adoration of others who may be fooled by his behavior. On a good day the narcissist is on top of the world, continuously buoyed up by his feeling of superiority. On a bad day, reality may break through and he is bothered by his feelings of inadequacy.
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What should you do if your narcissist ex dumped you and you both want to be friends but he ignores you and avoids you but occasionally texts you?
It's time to face reality and realize that a narcissist won't be any better at being a friend as they were your lover. He has total control over you!!! Have the courage (seek counseling to deal with all of this) and realize narcissist's are also abusive (probably more verbally abusive than physical) and will drive you straight to the funny farm. It's time you got that counseling, got on your own two feet, made new friends and started to have some fun and loosen yourself up so you can meet and hopefully date other nice men (there are lots out there) but take it slow and easy at first. If you tie yourself up in a knot over your narcissistic ex he is controlling; will have it all his own way and you will end up only being sad, lonely and your self respect and self confidence taken away. Please wake up!
Why do narcissists get upset when you say you want to have a conversation with him and he doesn't let you say what you wanted say?
* Narcissists feel they have all the answers and people (especially their mate) should do as they say. * Narcissists don't like to be confronted with any type of aggression or a person flexing their independent muscles. * Narcissists are generally highly intelligent, but feel that others are not. * Their reality is not the reality you live by so there is no communication skills going on and never will be. It's best to remove yourself from someone such as this as it will only be an on going fight. If the mate of the Narcissist refuses to confront the Narcissist there is going to be a war and no winners.
