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You are a 36 year old dating a 61 year old man who has got a wife He asked you out a couple of months ago and now you are serious you love him so much please help you dont know what to do?


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November 01, 2009 3:18AM

Drop him!!! Why would you want to be with a person who would cheat on his wife?

Let me tell you a quick story. My mom fell in love with a married man. It was supposed to be 'true love'. He was going to leave his wife after the children graduated. Not having my natural father around, I bonded to this man as if he were my own father.

He turned out to be a real sick-o! It turned out that my mom was only one of many of his 'true loves' outside of his marriage. He also hit on me when I was a teenager. And it also turned out that he molested his own daughters as well.

This man hurt a lot of innocent people.

Don't believe that you are the only one. Or even the first 'other woman' with this man. People like him can't be trusted! Trust me on this!

Be honest with yourself. You are as much to blame as this man is. Remember it takes 2 to tango. You should think about what kind of person you want to be and how you want the man you love to treat you. Cheating is not a one way street. Cheaters lake integrity, loyalty, self conficence, and they dont know how to love. What kind of person are you?