You are actually a boy that was turned into a girl at age four you are more of a boy than a girl but you can do it all But you can seem to find any site that can help you better understand yourself?

Answer 1

Look for sites that discuss inter-sex. Most of the cases like yours were the choice of some unknowing Doctor Who thought you have to be one or the other; these doctors are making choices that are yours to make when you are old enough. A lot of inter-sexed persons have been physically and mentally hurt by these 'medical professionals' and the doctors/hsopitals/parents need to be retrained. The heart of the transgender community's message is that no one can tell you what you are, only you can decide what you are.

I would also recommend looking for a therapist with experience in gender issues (someone without this can do more damage than help) and at least talk to them.