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of course you should! pregnancy is a very special gift. if you decide you don't want the baby later you can always give it up for adoption, but always carry the baby out full term and give birth to it. believe me later you and your child will be glad you did.

That's sad that you even ask. What a selfish thing to even think of. You had sex with your HUSBAND and you're asking strangers if you should keep it. Why did you get married to him in the first place if the question is even there.


Answer:Well not everyone choose to have kids just because they are married and maybe you are one of them. Marriage is about more then that. However, ppl here on WA who doesn't know you or your husband can't answer this. This is your choice and no one elses. If you feel you don't want kids or is not ready yet, the options are abortion, keeping the baby, or leave it for adoption. It's shard for you, otherwise you wouldn't have asked here but the decisison is ultimately yours.
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Q: You are just found out you are pregnant after 4 months of marriage Before getting married your husband was your best friend for over 10 years you were engaged for over 1 year Should we have the baby?
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