You get concerned about YOURSELF, and the effect this man will have on your child. Do you want to raise a narcissist? Because that will happen when your unborn baby lives with a narcissist? Get Out Now! Don't worry about him, he is an adult, and narcissist have an uncanny way of surviving. They, eventually, just adopt another personality and pretend the previous life did not exist. Read all you can about Narcissism and how scarry it is. Read how manipulative narcissists are and how they will try to fool you if they feel you are going to abandon them (until they want to abandon you!). Read how in danger - emotionally - you really are. Read how every commentary written about people (and even by people who ARE narcissists) who stay with narcissists are told "GET AWAY." Then, do it!
You will need to clarify your question. The pregnant mother may have become so abusive that he had to leave.
People can't leave them because the person who is abusive to you will not let you go anywhere.
If you leave him, then it doesn't matter what he does. It wouldn't be called cheating if you left him. If he is abusive, then you should leave him.
Leave, then empty the bank.
If you can leave him - do it now.
leave and/or abuse you and blame you.
LEAVE!!
I'm 16yrs.old and I was never pregnant but my mom had an abusive husband and I went and stayed with my boyfriend so if you feel like you can make it living with him you should try it if not forever but at least for a little bit. If you feel like staying there with your mom and her husband is stressing you out then leave because you could hurt your baby and no pregnant person should stress
Many BFs, or boyfriends, are not abusive. If a boyfriend is abusive, the girl should leave the relationship and file charges. Do not keep going back to an abuser.
I do not mean to be abusive with you, but frankly it sounds like you are being abusive with her. Get a grip and tell her the marriage is over, and then you leave. If you don't want her with you, you have to ask yourself why you are still there.
That it didn't work out. The rest is none of their business.
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