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No - but if you have stayed together and been trying to forgive him leave the past in the past because it is not as though he thinks about it but you always bringing it up causes problems and rehashes old feelings. Is it really that important to know, you are just lucky you know at all and have had a chance to deal with it in some ways. For the reason as you mention "what went wrong" - there didn't necessarily have to be anything wrong with your relationship for him to have strayed. Most men are perfectly happy with their lives and marriage and has nothing to do with you or your marriage. Leave things in the past, let things ly it really isn't that important if in fact 2yrs have past and you have both moved forward together. Your dwelling on minimal facts that really don't matter and regardless if you feel you should know its probably better that you don't - you can save a lot of problems by letting this ly our you could just push him away besides if your together he wants and chose you - shouldn't that be enough. If you feel you can't get by this you may want to seek some counselling that may help you deal with these harbouring feelings.

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Q: You asked your husband what went wrong for him to have an affair when it started and for how long its been 2 years and he wont answer them 3 simple questions does this makeme crazy for wanting to no?
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