Below is a link to a discussion on how to check up on a cheating spouse online. Hopefully there have been some actual 'red flags' of cheating already occurring that prompted you to investigate:
http://ezinearticles.com/?Spyware-For-Cheating-Husband---The-Best-Way-To-Catch-A-Cheater!&id=1007951
Have a key logger installed--some can record logins and passwords to accounts. Make your behavior seem as normal as possible; if a cheating spouse figures out he is being snooped on, he often will take his affair even more underground, and make it that much harder to discover.
I want to get my husband password in his email so I can read about his cheating emails and divorce him.
The question is already answers ... "the email was personal in nature from the other women to the husband" so why not hide it! It's called cheating!
Depends who is the Master User for the email accounts from the ISP you are using. There should be other ways to tell if he is cheating other than reading his emails, like checking the odomoter readings on his car, checking his clothing for stains or other strange odors, hire a private detective, etc.
just sneakily go and check any means of communication he has ie. cell phone recent calls, text's and email's. that should help (Y)
Ask him for his email addresses and passwords.
Men are scum, especially airplane pilots. They will cheat every chance they get, and they all have girlfriends on the side -- or women who WISH they were their girlfriends. God knows why. An honest person doesn't need more than two email addresses; one for messages and one for spam. Not all men are scum, but the above poster is correct in saying that a high percentage of airplane pilots can leave a girl in every country. Truckers, etc., can also be like this. I agree with the above poster that your husband SHOULD NOT have a secret email address. Time to start kicking some butt! I should know, I knew my husband's email address and I even had his password. I never saw anything unusual in his email but I had a suspicion of cheating. I found out he had another account that he only logged into while on the road or when I was asleep he used to carry on his emotional affair. I got ahold of these emails and divorced him. believe me, thanks to the secret email address I got more money than had I stayed with that overweight, lying, dishonest bastard. It was totally worth it. CASH IN, LADIES! Yes, why would he need a secret email? Something is going on that he doesnt want you to know. Believe me, I have an email that no one knows about for just the same thing.
Depends how broadly or narrowly you define cheating, but you have decisions to make. Do you ignore it and think it was just one silly episode, or do you tackle him about it and risk a lack of trust between you for the rest of your lives?
ANSWER:In my own opinion theres only 3 things you can use, through his cell phone, email, and his time line to how long he works everyday.
You should conclude the fact that you are incapable of emotionally satisfying him and end the engagement and move on with your life.
can husband join facebook using his email as im trying to do this but now working
You should do nothing. This is probably none of your business unless you have reason to suspect he's cheating on you. But simply writing to a gay friend by email is not cheating.
Then talk to him about how you feel. Ask him if he'd email his "friend" and tell her about you? He is not hiding the gifts very well if you know about them. He is playing her and you. A respectful husband would not do that.