You know your fiance is lying but everytime you confront him he get upset?

Answer 1

You need to make sure you have conclusive evidence that He is lying with both facts and evidence. If He is not abusive, present this to Him in an honest, "Okay, let's deal with this," manner. Make it be a joint effort to get to the bottom of this. If He is called on it and caught with the right backing it may put an end to it. If it continues, I would run, not walk, to distance yourself from Him and get out of the relationship. If He is the abusive type, then it doesn't matter how you approach it, or if you have facts and evidence. He is going to get upset and either abuse you with words or actions. In this case sprint as fast as you can and get out of the relationship and DO NOT turn back! If He is abusive and has already physically threatened you or harmed you, contact your local Women's Advocacy Group to seek out the proper channels to get a written record of the abuse or it may not hold up if you ever need to call for help and have him held or charged. * If one partner in a relation is lying, and you have the complete story, all the facts, and evidence, it is a huge RED FLAG!Your instincts should be telling you "this just doesn't feel right," and should be a good indicator that this is not the person you want to entrust your life with. Obviously the trust has been compromised, and the building of a relationship must have a corner stone of trust or it will crumble eventually. No one likes to crawl out from that debris! I am not a degree holding anything, just a person with lots of life experience at my disposal! I make no claim to know how to spell well either, lol.