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You need to understand why you are not satisfied.
Option One: Find an openhanded spouse.
There is no serious/good answer to this question, because it is not a good idea, period. Ask yourself why you want to have the affair. Do you dislike your spouse? Do you wish you were no longer married? Why do you want to stay married?
A little excitement on the side is not worth it, if you want your marriage to stay whole. Your spouse will find out, sooner or later, or the guilt will make you confess. Instead of trying to have the affair and keep it a secret, try talking to your spouse about why you are unhappy in your relationship. Marriage takes work and open communication. Don't throw away your marriage on a fling. If you don't want to be married, then divorce!
Option Two: THE ABOVE ANSWER is not fair. I have been married to the man of my dreams for 17 years. I left him with our two sons almost 10 years ago. We made up. which resulted in baby number 3. That was in 1999. We haven't had sex since no, actually we have had sex three times since 1999...and that was ten years ago. I have begged him to see a doctor, I have done anything and EVERYTHING possible to get his fire going.
I LOVE my spouse. I WANT to stay married and I WANT to stay married to this man because he is everything I ever dreamed of and more and didn't even know it!!! But I didn't get married to be celibate. I love sex. I was honest about that when we met, dated for two years and then got married. Sex is something I want and DEFINITELY NEED!!! If I get a little sexual release on the side it is not because that is where I want to be getting it it is because that's the only option left. I'm still married and I'm still in love with my husband. Don't be judgmental unless you marry a man who all of a sudden is not interested in sex you shouldn't be giving advice.
Option Three: The above answer ("Option Two") ignores the possibility of sexual fulfillment that doesn't involve another person. Buy a vibrator. Buy two. Buy some porn. Learn to find sexual release with yourself. A man who will not do everything he can to try to satisfy his wife is not the man of your dreams. Either that, or we need to hear HIS side of the story about why he has a wife who would betray his trust and his family just get a little "sexual release on the side". Think carefully about what you are doing before you destroy everything you have.
Don't sleep with someone else without your spouse's knowledge and consent. doing so will almost inevitably be discovered, and will either lead to a divorce or to a very unhappy period in the marriage. Talk with your spouse first, try to figure out what you can do to satisfy your sexual needs without putting any pressure on him/her. Common approaches are couples therapy (to work out inter personal issues that are getting in the way of sex), the use of antidepressant drugs (depression can destroy the sex drive, and some of the Saris tend to stimulate it), re conceptualizing your relationship (spiritual sexuality or tantra practices that will teach you to work with your sexual energy more productively), or creating an open relationship (in which both partners allow and can have external relationships)
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What is considered having an affair?
An affair is when a man and woman have sex. If you have an affair it means you want a baby. An affair is the best thing in the world so when you are married have an affair straight away.
Why a married man always want to have an affair?
because he ask from her wife
Can you stay married and have an affair?
No you can't. If you are already married and nothing is wrong with your marriage, why think it. Have you thought of what might happen if for some odd reason you decide to do it. If you really love your spouse, I think that's the most wonderful feelings a person can have. ___ Well, actually you can legally stay married and have an affair. Ethically your actions are questionable, but not legally. There are no laws that state you must divorce if you have an affair. However, an affair can be used as grounds for a divorce. noo , your committed to that 1 person for life , that was the whole point of you getting married...your suppose to be in love , why have an affair?
Why does a married man ask other woman out for coffee?
because they are attracted to them and want to have an affair
What is the difference between cheating husband to cheating wife?
Cheating is cheating no matter if the woman is married or single. The only difference is the man involved feels he can have a wild affair with a married woman without commitment because she will most likely stay with her spouse and the man cheating will stay with his spouse, but if he should have an affair with a single woman she may want him to leave his wife and commit to her.
You have an affair with a married woman?
i had a romantic love with a married woman in my church.but no affair.
How do you stop affair?
All you have to do is stop, you don't need any help from no one. But if you are asking ways to stop your affair, it will shows that your not really ready to stop your affair. If you are the wife and your wondering how you can tell your husband to stop his affair, all you have to do is talk to him, give him choices what he will face if he don't. But if he tells you that he can't or wont it means that your husband needs to decide if he want to stay married with you or divorce you. It's that simple
Can an affair stop at kissing?
Any affair can be stop if you don't want it to linger. But if you think your affair can be stop through kissing, I think you need to focus on if you want to end your affair. Married man will not permit just kissing and then left him in a cold spot. Either you tell him that you can't continue the affair or be the one that will destroy his wife. It's that simple... ADDITION: If you think kissing will not affect you or this married man, think again. My ex told me that they only made out everytime he saw this married woman, and guest what it made him more wanting her...
When was An Affair with a Married Woman created?
An Affair with a Married Woman was created on 1983-09-05.
Is it wrong if you are married and in a unhappy marriage if you have an affair with a unhappily married man?
Yes it is. It will be much better if you just tell the truth, escpecially if you want the marriage to be over with. Yes, its wrong. If you don't like the guy you're married to, get a divorce. Then you can be with you're other guy as much as you want. Seriously, if you cheat on your husband/wife, you're a wh0re regardless of the reason behind it. Yes I agree, it is wrong... it is definitely better to get a divorce first... or think about what is going wrong in your relationship that you can fix...? Also the man that your having an affair with is probly having an affair with other women aswell so Its best to stay away from him altogether.
Who did Aphrodite have an affair with?
while she was married to Hephaestus she had an affair with Ares.
Am a virgin you want to have an affair with a married man?
You'll do whatever you want to do, regardless of what anyone on the Internet advises. But really? Don't you have higher standards than this?
