Your best friend is a guy you have totally fallen in love with him you're afraid to tell him because he may not want to be your friend after that What should you do?
Look for signs of interest!
Try to make it a bit obvious to him that you've fallen in love with him.
Tell him your like majorly in love with this one guy but you afraid to make a move.
Then depending on his answer MAKE A MOVE!
Look for signs of interest!
Try to make it a bit obvious to him that you've fallen in love with him.
Tell him your like majorly in love with this one guy but you afraid to make a move.
Then depending on his answer MAKE A MOVE!
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If you're best friends with a guy and he has a girlfriend but you flirt and he tells you everything should you tell him you like him and if so how?
Answer . You know the answer to this one ... remain friends and back-off! Your friend has a girlfriend and that's all you need to know. There were chances you had that you could have expressed how you felt about him and told him. I think now more of his time is with his girlfriend and you miss… him. This often happens between friends that are of the opposite sex. Talk to him and set-up times when you can either go out for lunch, dinner or a drink together. It's best to be sure that you meet his girlfriend and "hands off." My husband has a couple of wonderful lady friends and we've had each one over for dinner. There is nothing going on and I don't feel threatened, but if he hadn't told me about his friends and just went out to meet them I would be pretty ticked off. ( Full Answer )
What should you do if your ex-girlfriend wants to be friends but you loved her so much and told her you're afraid you can't bear to see her with someone else because you're still hoping to reunite?
Answer . I am sorry you are hurting so much, and even the next few words I will say will not make you feel any better right now, but in time, you will either get back together or you'll move on.\n. \nMost people have been hurt by someone they loved during their youth. It hurts like hell! It fe…els like you're never going to get over it, but we all do. That old "friendship" bit sure comes up a lot and it's never changed from generation to generation. I agree with you ... it would hurt too much to be just friends.\n. \nI suggest when you are feeling up to it, agree with her on remaining friends, BUT ... pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and start going out with other girls. You just never know if there is that right girl out there for you and, there is also a possibility that if you stop hanging around your ex girlfriend and are just pleasant with her, but appear busy then she may realize she does love you after all.\n. \nHuman nature is a strange thing indeed .... most of us want what we can't have.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy ( Full Answer )
If you're in love with your best friend and you tell each other everything should you tell her your true feelings because you don't want to lose the friendship?
Answer . Unless she shows some signs that she wants to get romantically involved, don't tell her. Once a girl knows you like her (and she doesn't feel the same), she will feel awkward and it complicates things. Girls just want to have guy friends sometimes without strings attached.
Answer . \nOh boy! This is a tough one. You sound like a nice guy, and love takes all sorts of twists and turns. It's to your best interest to tell your girlfriend and be honest. Yes, it will hurt her. If you haven't been seeing her girlfriend (I sure hope not) then perhaps her friend doesn…'t feel the same about you. So, to cut to the chase this is what you have to do:\n. \n . 1 Does your girlfriend's friend care about you.\n . 2 If you haven't told your girlfriend's friend about your feelings the best\n advice is to walk on by and don't break-up a good friendship here. \n . 3 Be honest with your girlfriend. Staying with her knowing how you feel is\n taking her dignity away and you're losing validity in yourself.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy ( Full Answer )
OPINIONS FROM WIKIANSWERS USERS: . Definitely tell them. When I was in year five I had a HUGE crush on a guy. After school I would walk home with him and I would just stare at him. But the thing was that before all this he was one of my only friends, everyone at the school was always asking me… 'has he asked you out yet' or even ' have you kissed yet, do you hold hands in the shops on your little dates?' Then in year five I finally had the guts to say that I liked him, and he said that he liked me to! AND he even asked me out! We are still going out, so sometimes it truly can work out for the better. . You definitely should, I loved my best friend and after he broke up with many girls he always came crying to me and one day I told him and it made our relationship 50 times stronger and are still good friends. We tried the whole dating thing but it didn't work out, but it's better to date someone your already very close with but don't press anything if they love you they will tell you eventually. . I have a friend that went through the same thing. She liked this guy for three years and never told him! Anyway, everyone knew that they were "meant to be" if you will? They were perfect for each other, but they were both way to shy to admit it to the other one so they were just at a complete stand still. Then the boy finally asked her on a date. Even though they didn't actually get to go since the plans got all screwed up, they made a step. Then the boy finally admitted that he "loved" her. Now they are going out and its been about a month and eight days she tells me (not that she's counting). If he really means that much to you then you should go for it because you might not get another chance. If he doesn't like you, then you have major guts and you can get a lot of respect for that. If he is a jerk to you after you tell him and he doesn't feel the same then you know his true colors weren't all that great anyway. . Guys are slow. My best friends are two guys and they wouldn't know if someone liked them, even if they shoved their tongue down their throat. You can flirt a little and like you said let him figure it out. If you think telling him in person is too hard, you can IM him over AIM or something. . TELL HIM! DO IT! I love a happy ending! . I'm a guy and I currently wouldn't say love yet but definitely really like and care about my best friend. I haven't told her simply because I'm a little scared that if she says no our friendship will deteriorate, even though we are such awesome friends. But guys react a little differently, if I had a friend that told me she loved me and I didn't love her I would simply tell them I don't feel the same but I still really care about them. My friendship with them wouldn't change but only grow stronger because I know that person cares for me, That doesn't scare most guys so I would say definitely go for it. I love it when girls make the first moves and so do most other guys, but check the signs first to see if he might like you. And maybe don't use love, but say you like them and really care about them. . If you really love this guy you must be smart enough to show your love to him otherwise you may lose him, even as best friends, so take care of your actions and be smart and tell him by indirect way or if you felt that he likes you tell him directly, believe me it will work! . You show it that you love him and then tell him otherwise he won't notice because you're best friend. . The same happened to me, my best friend (a girl) didn't know. I asked for help and then that person accidentally told her, she didn't believe it anyways until I told her so. I suppose you should tell him. . I'd say go for it. You might lose this guy if he doesn't know you actually like him more than a friend. Don't gush all over him all of a sudden, but let him know somehow. . I personally think you should not tell this person, unless you are confident that he feels the same. I told my best friend of two years that I was attracted to him and we ended up dating for over 14 months. With that being said, we broke up a few months ago, and are no longer speaking. I loved him more than I've ever loved anyone else and he told me I meant more to him than anyone he'd ever met. Now we don't even talk because the break up was so terrible and hurtful. If you are willing to risk your friendship, then go for it. I do not regret dating him, or telling him, because I learned a lot from the experience. However, I lost a friendship in the process. Be sure that you wont regret your decision. Good luck with what ever you decide to do. . You should tell him. I'm a guy and I know that NO guy could figure out a girl loved him without having somebody test it or other such thing. One girl always would blush when she laughed, which would happen whenever I would talk to her. I had a friend make her laugh and she didn't blush at all. Anyway, most guys are more shy than most girls give us credit for. We are more shy than girls most of the time. Definitely tell him, because trust me, he will not figure it out for himself. . I have known for sometime one of my best female friends has had a crush on me. It's pretty obvious, she stares at me and ignores everyone else when I'm around and she gets angry when I hang round with other girls. Her best mates, who are also my best mates, told me she likes me. I asked them, they just yelled yes in my face but they told me she really wanted to tell me herself. Yesterday we were on a school trip, we got back to school then got another bus home, we were the only ones on the bus. It was the 18 people who had been saying stuff to us all day like are you two going out with each other, and we just said no. But when we were on the bus she was looking away from me, I could tell she was upset and she asked me if I thought that us going out was such a bad idea, I said no, I just say no to people because we are not, I thought she is trying to tell me I could see she was struggling so I said I over heard (name 1) and (name 2) talking about this boy you have a crush on, she went bright red and I said how come you will tell them and not me, she just looked at me started crying and said why should I tell you as if you would say yes, everyone knows the way you feel about (name 1), what has she got that I don't, and got off the bus, so that did not go to well, I'm going to have a talk with her about it though when I next see her. . I have this best guy friend and we have been friends since the 6th grade and I really like him but I can't stand it when another female tries to make moves on him and when me & (name 1) are together on the bus or at school. I can tell he really is interested in me but when he is around his friends he acts differently, I hate that. I want a boyfriend that's going to be real with me the entire time and I want him to treat me like I am his queen and he his my king. . I sort of have the same problem. I have been best friends with a guy for almost nine years, and just a few years ago I started to like him. Sometimes I feel I can't stand it if I'm away from him, and desperately need something to keep my mind off him. And then when I'm with him, we enjoy ourselves with childish things like video games and stuff, and never actually have conversations with each other. I'm not sure if he feels the same way, although all my friends think so, and I'm WAY too shy to tell him. If what other people have said on here are true, that he can't figure it out for himself, then I have to figure out if he feels the same way. I have to make sure of that before I tell him, otherwise our friendship might be broken and that's the last thing I want. . I went through this! I was dropping a couple hints and he figured it out after a while. I asked him. "If a guy and a girl are best friends, but one of them liked the other... Would it be awkward?" He said, "Of course not!". After discussing this topic, I admitted to him that I like him. And he was like really? Because I like you too. And they all lived happily ever after. . My life was just ruined. Well, not completely, but I just found out that he knew I liked him. He doesn't like me back. But on the bright side, he still loves me as a best friend. He admitted I was his best friend, even over all the other guys he knows. I talked to another of my guy friends about this, and he said to just give him time. I'm now going to see him today for the first time since his sister called to break the news to me, and I don't know how it's going to turn out. I'm just hoping he'll come around eventually. . Just drop some hints and flirt. He'll pick up if he likes you. . If you like him/her and go for it. If you are scared of getting rejected, life has it's ups and downs. If you truly love him then you should live a life full of crazy things, you never know what can happen. So take my advice go for it; get in there if you really love him then you would. . My three best friends are all boys and I have a lot of guy friends. From observation, I think mostly guys want someone who's honest. That's the "key". And of course, you have to care about him and put up with their annoying habits. So I say; TELL HIM! . Don't use the love word. It is like kryptonite to relationships at the beginning. Men are typically afraid of commitment and that word is like dangling chains out the front of your house while inviting him in. Instead present a sandwich at the door and wait till he is already in the basement before you bust out the chains. He most likely has or had the same feelings you do but doesn't want to risk damaging your friendship. Be careful and bring up the subject without any sort of serious commitment words like "love". I feel your best bet would be to make your friend activities more boy/girlfriend ish. Example if you guys are walking maybe grab and hold his arm in a playful way and see how he responds. If he doesn't reject it that would be a great indicator. . My best guy friend and I started to seem like we were liking each other on a different level than friendship if you know what I mean. If you like your best friend, then just take those moments that seem like more than friendship and make them last as long as you can. When you catch each other's eyes after a conversation and realize you've been staring at each other for what seems like forever, don't look away. That will definitely give them a thought in the back of their head saying, "I wonder if...". That's how I handled it with my best guy friend this year and on the last few days of school he brought up best friends dating more than once. After they catch on though, you need to discuss if you think the relationship is worth risking the friendship. That's the bottom line. . I went out with a guy who was one of my best friends. If anything, we were so much closer than other couples because we had a good foundation as friends. It didn't last but we are still as close as any of my other friends and we even have a laugh about when we used to date. The only problem is that if he says no it'll be awkward for a while and you might lose the good friendship you had before. So, in conclusion, if you think he likes you back, go for it. If you think he'll say no, then what's wrong with having him as a friend anyway? You should probably leave it and wait until he's ready for a relationship. . There is always the possibility that your friend might not feel the same way about you, so I don't think anyone can tell you that you should definitely go for it. If you are ready to take that chance, or you know for sure that you will not lose him if you tell him, I say you should go for it because you might regret it if you don't. But if you are like me and want him to make the first move because then you are the one to make the call, I think you should just hold out. . I did once he was my best friend and once the guy found out, he hurt me every way that he saw fit to. . I think that you should tell him. I'm in love with one of my best friends and haven't told him for a couple of years. I just haven't had the guts. But the thing is after watching the development and crash of his first very short relationship, I'm realizing that he's shy too. Then he dropped a very small hint that he likes me (i think) he was wishing girls would just come right out and tell guys that they liked them and he was looking directly at me! So there really wasn't much point to my babbling about my problems, but don't be afraid to speak up- he might be shy too. . Tell him. Its better if you let him know then not to tell him. If you don't then you will never know if he likes you back. I just told my best friend that I liked him/ loved him and he responded back the same way. So definitely tell him. If you don't then you will probably miss out on the one person you care about. So go for it. You might be nervous and all but that is normal. . I think that you should tell him. I think that even if he/she doesn't like you "like that" you will still have an amazing and wonderful friend. I have a bit of a problem though. One of my very best friends is a guy and we are very close. He has been with me through everything. The problem is that there is a language barrier and we live on separate continents. I don't know any of his friends well, or what he is like at school; if he flirts with certain girls etc. We haven't really talked about relationships that much because we are both shy. He has dropped numerous hints that he likes me and vice versa. . I hope if you tell him it works out. Personally, for me it was the worst mistake I have ever made. It was so weird he was like my brother and one day as a joke holding hands I just fell for him. We went out and he didn't feel the same way I felt. It was great in the beginning though! We've been broken up for almost 3 months now and I can't stand it. Our friendship is definitely weaker and I get jealous when I see him talk to any other girl. It worked out great for my other best friend though. She and her boyfriend have been going out almost a year and a half now. It really depends! . If you don't tell them they will never know. Show them that you have guts and that you're stronger than them by actually telling the person. I've liked a lot of boys myself but every single boy that I liked or loved I told them hoping that they would like me and if you tell them that you like or love them they might not have liked you before you told them but they might like you after you have stuck with liking them after a period of time. So go ahead, what have you got to lose? . I have 2 guy best friends and I liked one of them and a little later after my crush on him i told him and he was really cool about it and our friendship stayed the same, I think you should tell him because if he is truly your best friend then he will not just leave you after you tell him even if he doesn't like you back. Go ahead and tell him! . Totally! You should tell him! If you have always been there for him and you guys have complete trust in each other, that just makes it better! . Even if he doesn't say it back, eventually he will grow to hopefully. If anything, he will love you as a friend, and that's really good too! . Years back I fell for a guy in a big way and ended up best friends with him, without even telling him that I thought he was the most gorgeous and incredible person on earth. Then I told a mutual friend and he let the cat out of the bag. Well, it turned out that the guy had absolutely no romantic interest in me at the time. But we kept on being best friends and a few months later he asked me out! . My theory is that a lot of people have been desensitized to romance, they've almost been conditioned to view everyone they meet as a platonic friend. So, if you know someone likes you, you're more likely to weigh them up in your head as a potential girlfriend or boyfriend. If that sounds too good to be true, consider it from the reverse perspective; if you think someone hates your guts, you are much less likely to want to date them, right? Having said that, it's hard to muster the guts to say it. To this day, I don't have those guts. Mutual friends, while a little schoolyardish, are still a valid tactic; if he outright denies liking you to them, you have the option of in turn, denying that you said anything to those friends, while leaving him to consider your pros and cons. . I have the same problem. My best guy friend I have a crush on. I want to tell him that I like him, but I can't find the words. Or the guts. I hate it. The worst part is, I don't know how he will react. I value our friendship more than anything, and not saying anything, I still am close to him but it hurts. Especially when girls flirt with him in front of my face. . Please, just tell him or get someone else to tell him. He can't be your best friend for real if he wouldn't accept something like a little crush, so you'd be wasting time hanging out with him ) dating my best friend here, and loving it! . If there are any clues that he likes you then go for it, it should work out. I had a similar problem and we both liked each other we just wouldn't admit it. We talked about it about 6 months later and we finally admitted we had liked each other but we told each other too late because we had gotten over it. We are still good friends and we talk but really I still like he a lot. Just don't leave it for too long because if he likes you he might get over it . I actually told my best guy friend recently that I liked him and leanred that he liked me back! But since I can't date he told me that he will wait for me! Isn't that sweet. . I am in the same situation as you. I think i might be in love with my best friend. I have known him since i was 3 years old, and one day our class went on a field trip to a water park, and I fell asleep on his lap. Everyone told me the next day that he was so cute about it, and he made everyone be quiet so i could sleep. People who weren't even on the bus heard about it because people were saying that he likes to tell people that i slept on his lap. Ever since then, he's been making subtle hints that he likes me back. He's been looking at me a lot, and at a dance he asked if we could get a caricture together. He's also put his arm around me, and called me pretty. IF your noticing signs like these, I think you should do what I'm going to do, and that's go for it, and tell him. . I have a problem that's similar. I'm really shy. My friends actually started crushing on this guy and some how we ended up as the best of friends. He's also shy. We emailed each other over 3000 times in the first week of our friendship. I learned that he has the same interests and values as me...and he's really hot and funny. We're months into our friendship and I'm starting to feel differently about him, although I haven't told my friends who are gaga for him. He says that he can trust me with anything. At school we're totally different in public. We act like we don't exist. I get confused looks from my friends when I talk to him in the hallway or he cracks jokes that I only understand. We sit next to each other in classes. He gets really jealous when I joke or talk to his friends. Sometimes he pulls me over in class to tell me I look really pretty, or that I should come over sometime. I'm confused. Should I listen to my heart or mind? I want him to ask me first, but I don't want our friend/love(maybe) relationship to be over. . This sounds all too similar, I have a best friend which is a girl and we've been best friends for 6 years and we've always liked each other so much more than friends but neither of us will admit it to each other. Everyone says that we should go out and that we're cute together when me and her are around each other, we'll be on the phone to each other every night too this day for several hours or more and we would give the smallest hints of how we love each other really. we would giggle down the phone and laugh at all of our jokes and it all seem's too perfect for me and her. recently we went on a date and that evening i would hold her from behind like it was meant to be or something, then she would lie her head on my shoulder and just seem like we're in our own little world but yet we still won't admit it to each other but soon enough we're going to admit it to each other before it's too late, a little of advice guys, let it all flow between you and that special someone and make sure you both you like each other before you do anything risky or stupid but doing something crazy could lead to something good. . Its the same way for me. well not totally. I have two sides of the story. We had always flirted but we acted like it was nothing and everyone said y'all should go out and we said naww....but one is that i have a best friend for at least 7 years so far. so i had just recently texted him and my friend (so and so) when i had went to a football game at this high school. everytime i thought about the boy i kept on getting happy and get the shivers...smh and so i told (so and so) that i liked him and she said well i texting him now and im like ohh please dont say anything but she asked him so i got confused when he "accidently" sent me im not going to go out with her.... mom taught best" lalalalala and so im still confused like he still plain out dont like me so i said huh and he replied oh that was for some else but keep it any way and i said um okay so then he started messing with me (in a funny manner) and flirt as we usually do. The second story was with me and this boy on my team and we were both way too shy but eventually he asked me out and i said yes and so we are still going out so far! (this more to this but i didnt want to make it so long)! . Its the same for me also..me and this one guy, well my best friend. We first started out having a thing and then it didn't work out so we decided just being good friends and we turned out to be like best friends! I've always had feelings for him but now hes like in love with my best friend and she doesnt even have the feelings for him! little does he know i'm in love with him. We hang out and he tells me everything and those late night calls till midnight. Sometimes i think he likes me but i'm so scared to just tell him how i feel about him! its terrible, so i'm in the same situation as you! . I'm going through this right now. I met this guy in college. He lived across the hall from me, I didnt fall for him straight away. Funny enough, I started dating his roommate. But, after time passed I couldnt ignore this feeling I had for him. Needless to say one night after drinking and listening to him complain about how much he hated the guy I was talking to, I told him. He was in a long distance relationship, so I already had a idea that it wasn't going to go over too well. At this point, he knows and feels awful that he led me on. I do feel glad though that it's out there now, he tries his best to not lead me on. Though he does every so often. I think the only thing that is getting me through it is distancing myself from him. I'm not saying don't tell the person you feel the way you do, cause it could be great and start an amazing relationship. But, be careful because sometimes it can slap you in the face. Him and I are still friends but I wont say its easy watching him flirt with girls at parties and constantly talk about his girfriend to me. ( Full Answer )
Well it depends on how long the friendship has been going on... if for a long time you probably wouldn't want to be in love with your long time best friend... but if for a little while than it probably could be. FOLLOW YOUR HEART! well.......first thing is to tell the truth, because if this p…erson is your best friend the person would be ok with that. Well its a very hard relationship to maintain because if you love your best friend, and they know it, it can become complicated. For example, your friend could feel the same way about you too, but doesn't want to ruin the friendship, so you stay as friends and its awkward because you want more out of it, than just friends. You could just stay as you are and just wait it out and see what happens. You could tell your best friend, and be brave about it, so you don't have to worry about what could have been if you didn't try and let them know the true feelings you have for them. It's really hard to do, but I think its worth it, personally. Its also good for your best friend to know, because if you are truly best friends, you probably tell each other everything, and you would want that friendship to last, so I would tell that person how you really feel, and see what the reaction is. You can't loose anything from being honest. ( Full Answer )
First you have to have the surroundings right. Then you have to gently tell him, like give him a scenario, and see how he reacts to it. Then slowly tell him. Not all guys react to " news " like females do !
if you have a best friend, doesnt that mean you love them? you care about them? isn't that what best friends do?? okay i am not an expert in relationships. but the way i see it is that your best guy friend knows you love him. or else you wouldn't be friends. if you want to tell him that you see your…self with him in a relationship as lovers, you should go with your gut feeling. i understand you may be confused or worried that he may reject you and the friendship broken. read this though, friends will be friends through anything. if the guy doesnt see you the way you would like, guess what?? HE IS NOT THE ONLY MAN ON EARTH!! i know, i know. its cliche, but its very true. we tend that think that he is the only person we can ever love but we are wrong. our heart has the ability to adapt. it takes time of course. hang in there :) the point is that things may be peachy cream or kinda rough. but its okayy, finding love is tough but not impossible. if you have the feeling that you should just scream out loud to him that you want him, do it. and if you don't have the courage, you will always have a doubt. ( Full Answer )
Depending on how you feel, you should make him aware of your feelings. Your best friend should understand your feelings. However, you must weigh this with the future possibility of your friendship becoming "awkward" if the affection is not reciprocated. The good thing about dating your best friend… is that when you decide to move on with each other, you can - hopefully - still remain very good friends. At the end of the day, so to speak, you should follow your feelings and tell him the truth. ( Full Answer )
Answer . You probably shouldn't do that to tell you the truth! I told my best friend that's a guy that i loved him and he hasn't talked to me for 10 months! 10 MONTHS!! So if you wanna keep that good friendship going, just keep the emotions inside for a little while longer until you know that he… is falling for you. ( Full Answer )
Answer . Answer Don't wait another minute. Pick up the phone, tell that person you have to meet with him now, right now, and when the two of you meet tell him that he's driving you crazy, you love him that much, bet he loves you too.
that's a hard one but if i was me i would start getting closer to him and show him that you want to be more than just friends. don't just be the girl he casuly talks to try to be the girl that's always on his mind. i hope this helps and if anything be totally honest with him and just tell him what y…ou think about him ( Full Answer )
Well its a very hard relationship to maintain because if you love your best friend, and they know it, it can become complicated. For example, your friend could feel the same way about you too, but doesn't want to ruin the friendship, so you stay as friends and its awkward becasue you want more out o…f it, than just friends. You could just stay as you are and just wait it out and see what happens. You could tell your best friend, and be brave about it, so you don't have to worry about what could have been if you didn't try and let them know the true feelings you have for them. It's really hard to do, but I think its worth it, personally. Its also good for your best friend to know, because if you are truly best friends, you probably tell each other everything, and you would want that friendship to last, so I would tell that person how you really feel, and see what the reaction is. You can't loose anything from being honest. ( Full Answer )
Ask yourself this. 'If i tell him i love him, will it improve the friendship, or ruin it?'. Why ruin a perfectly good friendship with a kiss?
If you love someone who has been your friend for years and you want to get married but you're afraid to tell your parents when is the right time to tell them?
You didn't mention how old you both are. If you are in your teens and still in high school it's best to graduate first as most parents just want their children to get a good education. Generally in most States 18 is no longer a minor and you can marry without your parent's blessing. If you are older… and you have been seeing each other and your parents believe you are just friends then it's time to let them in on the secret. You know your parents best so either you could go over to see them one evening and tell them the truth or, you and your boyfriend go together and speak with them. If you have been going together for so long they must know him fairly well and like him so it's doubtful they would have a problem with both of you getting married. ( Full Answer )
Youre in love with your best friend but you're moving soon. Should you tell him you love him before you leave or never?
yes! tell him! i wuz in luv with my bff (who lives in antioch;he wuz tha one who moved) and when i told him it made our relationship even better! now he calls me everyday. but when u tel him make sure u guys keep in touch! glad i could help.=]
You should tell him when your ready. Don't start off by directly saying, "I love you", you should start off with a simple conversation that will lead you to the main topic. Try not to make it obvious and stay calm.
You should tell him so that he knows it too. It might be the samefeeling from the other side too.
You can tell you're not in love straight forward. You could alsoexplain that it could ruin your friendship.
u just have to be very very nice about evrything and at a special moment when noone is around that's when u look into his eyes and say i like you and not just freind like i mean i rellly like like you! please don't take it as ruining our friendship but i just relized im nothing without u in my life …i need you! ( Full Answer )
There is this guy I really like but Im afraid to ask him out or even talk to him because he is my best friends bro what should I do?
He is really cute, In my opinion... But Im afraid to talk to him, let alone ask him out... Basically, I am just afraid of being rejected by him, Then losing my best friend.. Im afraid of losing my best friend because I dont want her to feel like I was using her. Somebody Please PLEASE help me
The best thing that you could ever say is her name, and then I love you. Those are some of the best words in the WHOLE WORLD and you should just come out and look at her in the eyes and say it. It will be really hard to say it, but it will so be worth it in the end. Don't be afraid of rejection, bec…ause most girls will respect you for your feelings, and they appriciate your efforts greatly. ( Full Answer )
Just try to answer yourself the question, for example what would happen if you don't tell her and she really really like you. you would never know because you were to afraid to tell her that you loved her, you really dont lose anything and if she is really your friend she will understand you and tel…l you how she feels but she wont stop being your friend. just tell her you will feel a lot better ( Full Answer )
just wait for one of them not to like you because some one will get hurt if you dont wait
you dont you cant possibly otherwise you must really dislike your best friend,,. friends over bois/girls otherwise you are evil
\ngo out together like to the movies as just friends or dinner and talk about stuff that you both enjoy if you both enjoy the conversation then ask him out if he has a girlfriend just wait for it to be over if the guy rejects you then dont dump your friendship expecially if your best friends maybe t…he guy is just scared to loss your friendship. if you have a dance coming up its perfect to ask to go as just friends or if you slow dance have him hold you extra close this is not some crap some freak wrote it could work just follow your heart seriously ( Full Answer )
My boyfriend of 3 years was my best friend. It takes alot of courage and guts for a man whos been your friend forever to tell you that. My boyfriend aka best friend dated a few people when we were friends and loved me the wole time. I say he means it. But yet i dont know your relationship all that w…ell. Can you trust what he says? Was he drunk when he said it? If so id be asking him if he really meant what he said. If hes your friend forever, im sure you can be honest with each other. good luck ( Full Answer )
What do you do im a guy in love with a girl and her best friends a lesbian and you cant get the courage to tell her your feelings and im afraid that she will become a lesbian what should you do?
tell her how you feel. It may seem scary and awful, but it's the only way you're going to get what you want. An answer. And if she likes you, and you never say anything the chances of her going gay increase. speak up!
If this guy tells you he loves you then he goes out with your best friends then if you get a boyfriend he gets mad at you for no reason but its not fair because he can date allmy friends but you cnt?
He's trying to make you jealous and you want him all the more, or he's a player . .
you get into it like this you ask him somewhere and then when he asks you "just as friends"? you say that your not sure after that he will say what do you mean"? then tell him that you dont want to ruin your friendship but you might want to be more than just friends or you can ask a friend one of yo…urs or his to go talk to him about this and ask him if he feels the same way. i hope i helped you. GOOD LUCK!! ( Full Answer )
What should i do I'm in love with my best friend she is a girl and i want to tell her i love her her best friend is best friends with me too what should i do i mean i really love her?
just tell her how you feel that's the best thing u could do right know GOOD LUCK!!! Just tell her how you feel, try talking through it with her she might even understand. You never know ...she might like you back. Hollie x
Well that depends on what to do because do you like him?If you do than you probably just got yourself at boyfriend. If you don't like him than that is going to be very akward but try to act normal with him and maybe he'll do the same.
My friend has a crush on my best friend and wants to ask him out and it bugs me I keep telling myself it isn't because I am in love with him but I am not sure that I am not what do I do?
just tell her it bugs you she will understand. but if you try to get them to not like each other it wont work because its love and it will hurt them to much.
You really love this guy and he loves you but your best friend is in love with you you don't want to go out with the guy because you don't want to lose your best friend What should you do?
that sounds like something out of a movie, lol. Em, , i reckon the best thing to do would be to sit down and talk to your friend and tell him that you have the highest respect for him but it would never work between the two of you because you don't love him that way, but you still love him, as a fri…end. he might be hurt for a while, but its best to be honest in these situations. ( Full Answer )
Its defiantly best to tell him. He might feel the same way about you. I would just come out with it when you are chatting casually. Don't say any thing like I need to talk to you, because that makes it sound serious.
What does it mean when you're totally in love with one guy but when you're around your boy best friend all you want to do is kiss him?
You should first ask yourself if you only want to kiss your guy friend because you find him attractive. If so, you're only having these feelings out of lust. If there are other feelings there it may be time to evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been together for …five years and we started out best friends. Whatever you do....just got with your gut. ( Full Answer )
What can I do when he wants me as a friend only because he is afraid of love and he will be going away soon?
Your commitment to this person has to be deep because they have to learn that love is not a scary thing with the wrong person. They need time to cope, vent, an re-evaluate some things in their life. So don't push them, just talk around it until they start to open up.
Well, this seems like a tricky situation. Here are some tips and tricks on how you could explain: . Get him alone and tell him you have a problem: You have vibes, attracting you to him, and you hope he feels the same. Or, . Take him somewhere quiet- more conveiniently on your own and tell him:… You wish you could be with him forever and then try to rip his clothes off- if he'll let you. . A more suttle way: Tell him you have a secret and that he must not flip out when you tell him. After that, say you're a homosexual and your heart flutters when he comes into the room. Thanks for watching! ( Full Answer )
you have think what are your feelings towards her? are you attracted to her in that way? it must of taken this girl alot to tell you she loves you cause that's never easy (: do you think you could see yourself holding hands, cuddling, kissing her, having more feelings for her.. now that she's to…ld you her feelings would your friendship ever be the same again ,you knowing she feels this way so maybe you should just give it a try.. weigh out the pro's and the con's but don't drop her (: ( Full Answer )
Yeah... No? Obviously not. Now by the writing of this sentence i assume that your pretty young maybe around 12 and if so than you don't understand the meaning of love. So get over your little crush and move on. And if you are older, than your acting like a little child and cannot write. (: Thank me… and have a nice day! (; ( Full Answer )
Should a guy tell his best friend a girl that he loves her if this girl is already in a relationship?
He should tell her because if you wait then you may lose your chance and she might feel the same way and is dating that other guy to just make you jealous. you'll never know until you try.
well that depends on why your telling her that, either A) you love her more than that but its a secret in which case, sure B) she confessed her love for you and you don't love her the same so your telling her that to let her down east in which case, no find a different way, don't use the word love b…ecause she'll cling to that and think theres a chance you'll eventually like her or C) you genuinly love her as a friend/sister and you want to tell her in which case, sure tell her but make sure you don't make it seem like you like her more then that, if theres a different reason, explain please. ====== Since you said "best girl friend," that implies you have more than one girl. Therefore, yes, you should tell the best one that you love her in a "friendly" way if you want to encourage her that you two might have a permanent relationship. If you told her in a "romantic" way, she might be at the store selecting her wedding gown before you had a chance to decide if you were overly friendly. ( Full Answer )
I am in love with my best friend should i tell him i love him or no because it could ruin our friendship?
You'll regret it if you don't, but if he doesn't feel the same it could definitely make things awkward. All in all, your decision!
Of course you should. BUT it depends have you guys know each other for a long period of time if not he might think you are going a little bit too far ,If you didnt take the time to know him a little bit more nor share unforgettable moments together to reinforce the idea of the love you guys share to…gether. ( Full Answer )
Go for it. If he doesn't like you, then it doesn't matter if you still want to be friends. If you put the idea out there, he will be thinking about it, and might eventually get the guts to ask you out. If you're true friends then it will work out either way
How do you find out if a guy likes you when he is shy as giving our past being best friends and he knows I like him is he afraid to tell me because he doesnt want to ruin our friendship?
Yes that probably whats wrong! Most boys who are friends with girls, and like them are afraid of something like that. Give him some time.
More people in this world should tell those that they care about that they love them. Being male yourself it is wiser to tell your guy friend that you love them like a brother and not just 'I love you' because he may consider the fact you are gay or just simply strange.
What if you love a guy and he loves you but your best friend hates you everytime you go out with him should you dump him or should you tell you friend if she care to let you be?
You shouldn't dump him. Your friend isn't being a very good friend. If you love him and he loves you then that's what's important. Your friend should respect that.
What do you tell your guy friend when he tells you he wants to stop talking to you because he is in love with you?
Depends on whether you like him or not! If you do, tell him! If not, you have a choice to make. If you want to continue being friends with this guy have a serious talk with him. Tell him you don't feel that way about him but would love to continue being friends. That you value him too much to let hi…m go and don't want his feelings to ruin something great. If you feel uncomfortable by this declaration, have a talk with him too. Make clear your feelings about him and decide whether or not you can continue the friendship. ( Full Answer )
Im afraid if i tell my exgirlfriend that i love her but were not friends that she wont want me back bc shes with a boy but wat should I do?
If you really like her then give it a go or else you will alwayswonder what she would have said if you don't.