Oye...I've already answered another question similar to this and I'll tell you what I told the other girl...
This is what you tell your boyfriend...
"IF YOU LIKE IT THEN YOU SHOULDA PUTA RING ON IT!"
If he wants to start a family with you...then he should start with YOU by MARRYING you! Without marriage in the picture, the chances of him getting you pregnant and then leaving (no strings attached) are very realistic (I don't know statistics so I'm not going to sound like I do, I'm just saying recognize that).
If you love him, he loves you and you want to have a family, then what's stopping you from getting married? Having a child is a life changing experience and it takes more than one person to raise a child. This I DO know, studying psychology, a child needs BOTH parents in the picture to have the best chance of developing fully and normally both psychologically and emotionally...this isn't just about what your boyfriend wants...remember your OWN needs and the needs of your future child....a stable home is a must for proper child development.
Best of Luck!
-Hehewuti
If a child wants to live with the child's boyfriend, then the child needs to be 18.
It sounds as if your ex boyfriend not only wants to see his child more often, but wants to get back with the mother of his child because if he didn't there is nothing stopping him from staying with you and introducing you to his child.
If your boyfriend says that he wants to have a child but not with you, that just means that he's not ready for that type of a commintment, and if he says that if it happens then it happens that just means that he will be there for you. He will help you through it.
Pays it to you or someone else?
Yes, until the child reaches the age of majority (usually 18), the parents are legally responsible for the child. This includes providing financial support, housing, and meeting other basic needs. Factors like quitting school and living with an of-age partner don't automatically emancipate the child.
If your young and you dont want no child DONT HAVE ONE BECAUSE HE WANTS A CHILD. A CHILD MAY BRIGHTEN UP YOUR LIFE BUT DONT have one because you'll never be same person you use to be. You may regret having a child ...
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what if 2 year old wants to be with dad instead of mom and boyfriend living together
Clarification needed: your child? grandchild? other relative? boyfriend/girlfriend? neighbor? And what's the question?
Something is wrong. Automatically, it would be best to allow the mother to visit somewhere near you where she can be watched. Also, if the boyfriend has done any wrong to the child, it should be investigated and reported. Children sometimes know things that they are afraid to talk about. Keep the child away from the boyfriend. If the mother refuses to see her child without her boyfriend, then you cannot allow the child to visit their mother. Think of the safety of the child before making any hasty decisions.
If the ex-boyfriend is the father of the baby, and wants to be a part of that child's life, I would say absolutely! However, if he is not the child's father than I believe that decision belongs to you and you only. Only you know how that relationship has evolved.
No because whats a the point of having a boyfriend