I can't tell whether you're married or only engaged from your question. But, let us assume that you are married, what is so difficult about asking your husband what this girl you are writing about means to him? Why not simply ask "what does 'so-and-so' mean to you?" Let him explain the relationship and make your judgment as to whether she presents an obstacle to your marriage. Marriages work best when you talk, talk and talk more. You might at times be afraid of disagreements, of shouting and you might even cry, but marriages are made up of two different individuals who have different ideas about life. Read Meyer's book on "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters" and learn about "Tit for Tat" resolutions.
That's a normally feeling. As a wife/spouse you should feel that you should be the number 1 women in his life at all times. However, if you trust him-which you should since your married to him, loosen up. Maybe you should give her a shot, and you might become close with her? I would suggest getting to know her. Since he is your husband you should always plan out certain times or days or makes plans just so you two can be alone and spend some quality time together.
No.
It should fit the personalities of you and your future spouse.
There should be no problem with your sister bringing her friend and no need for your spouse to have a problem with it, but give your spouse plenty of time to get your home in order. For sleeping arrangements your sister and her friend could have separate bedrooms if you have the room and if you don't then girls have no problem sleeping together in one bed. Your sister and her friend should help your spouse around the house and that means helping prepare meals and keeping their rooms clean. There is no doubt your sister and her friend will be out shopping and not always in your home which will give you and your spouse some privacy.
buddy, friend, companion, associate, spouse,
No, your friend will blame you for telling her. I know you are trying to be a friend, but she won't listen and you will ruin your friendship. She will need you when it does come out.
best friend usually. for some, their spouse is their best friend, which should at least be noted.
Then I'd have time to do something I enjoy.
You will now qualify for the Nonimmigrant visa for spouse (K-3) issued at the embassy
It is certainly not innocent if you have a friend of the opposite sex and want to keep it from your spouse. If you are truly friends with this person then talk to your spouse about him/her and ask your friend over for dinner. There is nothing to fear as long as that person truly is just a friend. Keeping it a secret only casts shadows of covering up a possible extra marital affair.
If the spouse was willing with the friends adances then they should not be alone together if the spouse told them no that should have earned trust already.
Answer It's not slander if it's true.