Your husband had an internet affair and im scared it will happen again?

Answer 1

Let me get that straight: an internet affair? I must say that to have texting on the internet does not quite make for an affair! But were they getting together?

Of course, if they were getting together, then you must assume that the internet will be the vehicle that will allow your husband to have further affairs. Because, no doubt, this is the avenue to connect to others and it will be really difficult to stop.

You must confront him! But when you do, you must know that this is a two-pronged undertaking. For you hopefully realize that most likely your relationship to your husband is lacking something. And most of the the time that lack has to do with sex. For the sexual needs of men and women are drastically different. His lifestyle is most likely also different from yours. You need to look at Meyer's "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters," to learn more about all the different lifestyles and values we come into marriage with, confront him and try to reach some accommodation.

But be assured that if your relationships with your husband is an open one, he'll understand. And if it isn't, it's about time that you discuss the reasons for his liaisons freely.