Tell him you're human and you made a mistake. That you and the affair should be forgiven but necessarily forgotten. How would he feel if it was the other way around. Tell him the world's most perfect human being was crucified and that too, was a mistake.
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Surprising as it may seem, formal courtesy is more important to a married couple than it is in the outside world. This is known a "courtliness". It is a sign of respect, intimacy, and surprising...great love. "my boo" isn't the answer. "Mrs. Jones", coming from a husband is a surprising and delighful way to be addressed. "Mr. Jones" will come to the dinner table more quickly than "hey Bob". Work at addressing your spouse with dignity! Dignity is the right of every person, and making sure that your spouse knows that you respect their dignity is not only an ego builder..it is a secret turn on. Courtliness between spouses shows that your mate cherishes you enough to address you with dignity. This is a foundation for many years of great love and intimacy between the partners.
be respectful of others and yourself.
be who you are.
be truthful.
be kind to all living things.
except the world for what it is.
judge not and only take what you need.
Respecting each other in a marriage is one of the moste beautiful things in a relationchip. Unfortunately many households of married people do not have the required respect and this is why they go down sooner or later.
But earning the respect of your husband or wife isn't that difficult.
To answer your question:
Firstly, you should show your husband the kind of respect which you are expecting from him.
Because nobody wants to be disrespected!
Secondly, just be yourself! That means follow your goals, for instance. When you respect yourself, he will in reverse respect you too.
And finally, be independent! Nobody wants to have a adultchild at home who only wants to be cared of. Show him that you are strong. He will respect your strength.
woman should stop catering to his every needs. Once he realises your importance he will start appreciating you.
By showing him respect, puting him first, and making him your one and only!