You can help some learn to express emotion by helping them learn to label them first. Listen to what he says, or see what his mood looks like, and offer suggestions. You can say "You seem sad today," or "Your face looks happy." Encourage him to tell him how he feels. Show him how by using "I" messages - "I feel ___ when ___ happens."
it is best to tell him to his face rather than another way you cant help it if you have feelings for the same sex.
Maybe, or maybe not. Depends on who your husband is.
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perhaps he still has feelings for you.
You should not let you husband to cheat at the first place. It can hurt the feelings of both of you.
You can't help who you love, but you can help what you do. First, ask yourself, if the person is you best friend, do you want to hurt him. Second, you may love the lady but from what you say it is by no means clear that she loves you, or would welcome you telling her that you do. Please think very hard where you are going with this.
Hilary Farr is no longer married. She went a horrible, horrible divorce and was experiencing emotions of bitterness, anger and resentment towards her previous husband and started the show "Love It or List It" to help take her mind off the negative feelings from her ex husband.
As bad as that is you might still have feelings for your ex. The right thing to do is to go things over with yourself and see if you love your husband or if you still have feelings for the ex. If you really believe you still have feelings for your ex you should confront your husband about it, its only fair to him.
neither ,, its because they have the same feelings !!
I don't think there's anything you can do because he said that he had no feelings for you. I think that maybe you should move on without him. You should find yourseld someone who does have feelings for you instead of trying to reconnect with your husband who doesn't like you.
Your husband might have meant that he didn't actually like his affair partner and he had strong feelings about hating her. Just cross your fingers!
Your husband might walk away when you cry because he feels unable to help you or unable to handle your tears. He might also walk away because he is sad himself and feels strange about showing those feelings.