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It is never wrong to resist abuse by legal means. Yelling back is legal though not always effective.

It is never wrong to stand up for yourself, but it's dangerous when it's linked to an abuser! If you are married or just dating, get out of this relationship! To argue with such a person could mean physical violence. Abuse is all about control and if he/she feels they are losing control of you things could get ugly. It is best to remain silent and have a good plan to leave this relationship. Be sure you have family or friends on your side and some place to go.

Good luck Marcy

hello, well its instinct to want to defend yourself especially when you know you are in the right and perhaps your side is the logical one. an abuser when "abusing" is very selfish, its all about him him him (or her her her). they just care to get what they want, WHATEVER THEY WANT. the more you resist or argue the angrier they get, the more frustrated, so with abusers its best to keep quiet, perhaps give them space (let them know you'll be back as soon as theyve calmed down). I personally tried to talk peacefully into getting him to understand my needs, i was good to him, i made sense, but in the end he hurt and havent seen him since. So as the abused i feel : oh its my fault because i shouldve obeyed what he was saying then "nothing would ve happened and we would still be together. this type of thinking also means that I ( YOU) the abused needs to learn that we are worth so much and deserve wonderful things, someone who will listen to us and respect us...and who can make us feel welcome to be ourselves..

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