What does it mean dream about someone else who's not your boyfriend?

Answer 1

Your mind WILL dream about people other than your spouse, simply because your spouse is not the only person with whom you come into contact. If you dream of being with someone other than your husband, your reaction to the dream is more important than the dream itself. Were you happier asleep or awake?

Answer 2

it means that either you are having an affair with someone or you and your spouse just aren't meant to be

A different response

Dreams use symbols and metaphors to illustrate the dreamer's thoughts and feelings. The dream in this question indicates an involvement with someone other than the spouse, but that need not be a sexual involvement. Consider the common expression, "In bed with the other side." The dream might reflect nothing more than a political opinion that differs from that of the spouse, or a difference of taste or style.

> In the same sense, the "spouse" in this dream could be symbolic as well. For example, if the dreamer is a member of a certain church, and decided to visit the worship services of a different religion, that could be interpreted in the dream as "cheating" on the church/spouse. The same might apply to a sports team, an employer, or anything else to which loyalty might be expected.

Answer 3

Dreams deal in symbolism and metaphor, so the guy in this dream might actually represent your husband - or your father, son, or any other male figure. The kissing need not refer to sex, even if it appears quite passionate in the dream. Kissing can be a metaphor for strong agreement, alignment or any other sort of close bonding.

Answer 4

Dreams communicate through symbols. In this dream, the guy might represent the dreamer's past, and emotions that have been discarded. Alternatively, the guy might symbolize men in general, or options to choose or refuse.

Answer 5

Dreams can be about many things other than romantic attraction. Dreaming of a certain person has no relevance to the dreamer's emotions about that real life person. The person might appear in a dream because of some similarity to the boyfriend or to some other individual in the dreamer's life.