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I want to know the answer to this! My exhusband and I have been separated/divorced for 20 months now. He has been showing me and our 3 year old daughter that he has been making some changes. He has been the one traveling to our house to visit us and hasn't called me any names or gotten physically abusive with me for a few months now. He just started counseling again because he said that he had an emotional break down because I wasn't responding to his changes. Now, he has another woman involved and says that he doesn't know what to do. He loves me but really likes her and is curious. He said that I hurt him so badly by not giving him any attention these past few months. Is he trying to gain control of me again or is he really hurt? Can he really be a changed person with someone else? He has/had all the classic signs of an abuser. Confused in WI...someone please answer! My opinion is that humans are creatures of habit. I don't think you should trust your ex-husband. From my experience, abusers are able to modify their behavior, but it's only for a short period of time. I wouldn't believe that he is a changed man. I do believe in therapy, but after years, and I'm not sure that's even healthy for the abuser or the abused to enter a relationship again. It sounds like you know that your ex-husband is an abuser and that you shouldn't believe him. Trust your instincts.

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