Does your husband love you if he quit his job of 10 years to become a truck driver and is gone 27 out of 30 days and he decided this without you and you feel he doesn't love you but he says he does?

Answer 1

He was wrong in not disgussing his plans with you re changing his job. This effects you as well. I wouldn't want my husband gone 27 out of 30 days. Sounds like he wants the gypsy way of life, but that doesn't mean he'll cheat on you. Some men just love change and truck drivers get plenty of that. Remember that old Willie Nelson song "On The Road Again." Some men just have to keep moving no matter what. He'll find out it's not such an easy job and long hours and very lonely. Only you know how he's treated you up until now and if he's an OK guy then he still loves you. Perhaps he feels he can make better money driving truck. When he gets home sit down with him and tell him this shouldn't have just been his decision. Don't nag him and let him explain. Tell him that he didn't consider your feelings of being alone 27 days a month. He may have more plans for the future and truck driving could be a temporary way of making better money, so give him a chance to explain. Good luck Marcy