Help... Girl problems 'Elaborated inside'

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To elaborate:

We chilled for a year as friends to a point where we can instantly tell if something's "off" in the other person, then she developed feelings for me. However at the time, I couldn't see us going into marriage anywhere in the future, so I said no we're not going past friendship. She got over that shocker.

Then a month later, when chilling for a month more and more often, I begin to have problems dealing with her talking to this particular guy. (of course I'm not going to outright state my problem of jealousy).

So basically I'm asking whether this is afraid of "losing her as an option/or a person who was interested in me", or is this more of a "i like you.. will you date me?" type of situation.

Should i try and tell her i like her?

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