#1. he is your husband and you need to respect him
if he verbally abuseve then i would sugest to talk to him about it never hide things from your husband talk it over and if still does not listen then do something about it....and you know what i mean if he really loves you he will change
If your husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, you can break the negative cycle by seeking the services of a family counselor or filing for divorce.
Through a lawyer.
In my experience an abusive woman will increase the level of abuse in the relationship as long as the submissive husband tolerates it or allows it to go on. In my own case, I was conditioned to fear my wife and to accept all punishments. An abuser requires a spouse who is weak and submissive and takes the abuse.
by leaving him and staying in you mom's place.
maybe because your so used to him calling your name all the time or aware/scared .
Immediately. Reach out to a close friend or relative for help, and leave as soon as you can.
One word: Drugs.
If your husband wants you to call him sissy, he wishes to engage in role playing in which he will have the submissive role and you will have the dominant role, which you demonstrate by verbally abusing him. There is nothing terribly unusual about this, many people have much stranger fetishes.
Yes. You have no control over who accompanies him to such events. If he is abusive toward you then discuss the situation with your attorney and take the matter to court if necessary.
Yes. As soon as you can.
I am sure that it would depend on the abusive ex-husband.
There are very few Western cultures where monogamy isn't the rule. It takes either a very mature and generous husband (and equally mature and generous women), or a very abusive husband (and very submissive women), to make a success of polygyny.