How can you change your bad attitude?

Answer 1

Im in the same situation, trying to change my attitude. My school friends, dont seem to mind, unlike my parents who absolutely hate it.

Im improved, though. The only advice i can give you is to not change yourself if you like it, but if you do want to change then the only thing you can do is actually change your bad attitude. Dont talk back, say only kind things. At first its hard, but eventually itll. BE easier and easier and youll improve as well. Hope I helped! Good luck:)

Answer 2

Our attitudes are often a reflection of the way that we feel about ourselves. If we are depressed, don't like ourselves, or feel insecure about ourselves, it will show in how we relate to others. Talking to someone who you can trust, who is observant and caring, can often help us to discover what we really are feeling about ourselves. It can be very hard to remember that we are good people, worthy of the attention of others, with things to contribute to those around us. Having another person remind us of these things is very important, and is one of the main benefits of counseling from a specialist. But the most important thing is to know that you are loved, even if you feel that people don't show their love to you in the ways that you crave. It is astonishing how many people feel bad about themselves, and therefore are reluctant to be vulnerable with others, even people that they love. We are social creatures, who need affirmation from others to function properly. Unfortunately, affirmation is not something that our society teaches how to give and receive. Instead, we get critisim, anger, guilt, shame, and a whole mess of negative emotions. Even if you get mad at people close to you, remember that you would be much more unhappy if you were completely alone. You may not believe that, but I can assure you that it is true. We just don't appreciate people who we see every day. Sometimes our attitudes are out of our control, due to chemical and hormonal imbalances, and sometimes it's just a choice we make. I tend to be easy to upset at various times for various reasons, including migraine-like headaches. When I realize I've got a bad attitude, I try to make myself not react the way I would immediately, or apologize when I do. That much, at least, is my choice. ==new answer==Make a list of the qualities you don't like in a person. Beside this identify the opposite of this quality and practice using the good quality in their presence without their knowledge and observe the results.

Answer 3

Play "small ball". Therefore, when you are feeling irritable, just do the things you wouldn't want to be doing while in a good mood - such as paying bills, doing laundry, cleaning up around home, and, if all else fails, getting some rest.

Think about what's causing you to feel like you have a bad attitude. What is going on in your life that is so irritating to you that it has effected your daily mood. After you identify the irritant decide how to fix it. If it is a situation that is out of your control - say a boss, teacher, partner or parent who is disagreeable, remember the situation won't last forever and your feeling angry or irritable is not effecting the other person as much as it is effecting you and your future, sometimes even your health.

When you feel the anger or attitude change coming on, take a few deep breaths and let them out slowly. Make up your mind to just let it go. Picture something you find relaxing, then go with that more relaxed and hopefully happier feeling. Repeat as necessary.

Answer 4

just keep calm,hang up in there face,or ignore them .............etc

Answer 5

I had an attitude like I always talk back to my family and I knew that was wrong.how I learned was by not talking back my mom will always say just ignore them.good luck