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As long as you confine yourself to legal methods, you can't "prevent" anyone from doing anything.

You can voice an opinion, give advice, or refer to literature. But that's just about the maximum.

There is nothing that a friend can do to prevent someone from going back to the abuser. A good friend can offer books and websites to educate the abused person. Keep the discussion open at any time, when the friend needs it. If the abused person does not want to re-enter the abusive relationship, but does not have the emotional strength to end the relationship completely, then I believe you have an obligation to help the friend end the relationship. Whatever it takes, if he/she allows you to help, then do so. This may entail much sacrifice of time and energy on your part. However, there are some people in life who need help, because they have become too weak to help themselves. If your friend does not resist your assistance, then do not wait for instructions on what to do. Be the leader, and take her/his hand, and help that person walk away emotionally, physically, and legally, if there is no resistance to your help.

Aside from lending an ear when needed and maybe directing your friend to books or sites on abusive relationships (or a professional counsellor and the like), I think it's best NOT to get involved -- unless you are ASKED for help.

I think listening and allowing your friend to go through the emotions is about all you CAN do.

You cannot prevent your friend returning to an abusive relationship. All you can do is be there for support as and when it's needed.

However, I would take care to be diplomatic in relation to the abusive partner, as your friend is likely to go back over and over again until she hits a wall emotionally and cannot take the abuse.

In the likelihood that you denigrate the abusive partner or shame her for returning or anything of that nature, you are likely to lose your friend.

Let her know that your still there for her and that she doesn't need a guy to make her happy.

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