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- If this is a one time affair your spouse has had then 'to err is human' and if they are remorseful you have a greater chance of saving your marriage. Instead of worrying about your self respect realize that percentages of affairs between married couples is high and that you are not the only person dealing with this problem. Take the bull by the horns and let your spouse know that you are not putting up with another affair and the both of you should seek counseling. The Counselor is not there to blame one or both partners, but to give the couple tools to help them through their marriage problems. Keep your head high because you were not the one that cheated and no matter how high the statistics of one spouse cheating on another it is still unacceptable in society. If your spouse has cheated more than once then pack then you are far better to file for divorce because the statistics are high they will cheat again.
What else can I help you with?
After your spouse affair is there any help to save your marriage?
When a spouse has had an affair and broken that bond of trust it is difficult to earn back. Going to marriage counseling may help the situation and explain to the spouse that marriage counseling is not about blaming one of the spouses, but giving them tools to learn to communicate in their marriage and know how to rectify any future problems in their marriage. Many couples may have experienced one spouse having an affair and it is not uncommon for both couples to have an affair, but, they do manage to save their marriage. It is entirely up to the couple.
Should a person begin to think their spouse is having an affair if they make a person feel invisible and constantly give hateful answers and degrading looks at their spouse?
Not necessarily. An affair doesn't always cause the spouse to be mean like that. A marraige that is falling apart would cause that. When a spouse is cheating, the last thing they want to do is be mean and suspicious. They want to act normal and even nice so the other doesn't suspect anything. For your marraige: time for counceling. If you want to save this marraige, make an appointment and go (if your spouse wont go, then go alone to see what you can do to save the marraige).
How you can save marriages for married lovers having affair outside their marriages?
dont cheat on your spouse. just tell the person your interested in someone else...cheating is disgusting, disrespectful, and stupid.
Is it to much too handle if you want to save your relationship after your spouse affair?
That's your decision. First step would be marriage counseling.If the cheating partner is unwilling, the prospects don't look good.
Do you want to save your marriage from the affair?
yes
What are the odds of saving your marriage?
If the spouse does not constantly cheat and made one mistake by having an affair then talking it out in a calm manner and facing how you both can improve upon the marriage may save the marriage or, you both could go to marriage counseling to learn tools to deal with every day life's stresses. If the spouse is constantly cheating; may be on drugs or abuses alcohol or is constantly verbally or physically harmful to their spouse it is best to move on. There is a good rate of successful marriages if one spouse has only had one affair if the couple decide to make it work. 'To err is human.'
Why are women blamed more for extramarital affairs than the men they were involved with?
As far as gender, there is still the double standard of belief that men are less able to refuse sexual offers, even while in a committed relationship. Women are often expected to be more selective about sexual partners. As far as real life affairs, the outside affair partner always tends to be the first person thrown off the bridge when the sh*t hits the fan. It's often easier to lay the blame at the door of the outside party, the interloper, than it is to acknowledge that the spouse made his own choice to breach the trust in his marriage by placing his needs over his spouse's. It's harder to fight a faceless issue that is rooted in the cheating spouse than it is to see the fully willing affair partner (the person there is no shared history or children with) as the scapegoat. For the married person, when the affair is discovered by their spouse, they often dash to save their own skin by whatever means possible. This usually includes projecting their own choices onto the affair partner. Instead of the married cheater saying, "My decisions nearly cost me my marriage," he/ she will often think or say, "My affair partner nearly cost me my marriage,". In order to save their marriage or to take the heat off of themselves, the married cheater will make the affair partner a common enemy of both he and his spouse. It's easy to throw the affair partner off the bridge when the affair is made public, simply because the affair partner was a willing participant in the deceptions and the enabling of the married cheater that were going on. All three parties in the affair---the cheater, the affair partner and the spouse--generally only want to hear the parts of the truth that work in their favor. With a married cheater, there are several facets to the full truth that all three of them are unwilling or unhappy to realize.
Would you steal medicine to save your spouse's life?
no shame on you
Why do you need to save the environment?
To survive
Did Bob Bowersox have an affair?
Bob is divorced. He wrote a book about how to save your marriage. Oops.
What is importance of afforestation?
important of afforestation is to save our earth,to survive us,to save the earth from the pollution.
What do you do when you are trying to save your marriage but your spouse is not?
ou might suggest couples counciling but you have to do it together.
