How can you tell if the man you're having an affair with loves you?

Answer 1

About Love!May I reword your question? Would you mind if I asked "why, if we had so much in common, did he leave me?

If the two of you had a lot in common, you should cry over him. For being alike, rather than that Hollywood idiom 'love', counts for the possibility of a great relationship. Build on what you have in common, give him a call, remind him and hope for the best.

But if you want to know what relationships are all about read Meyer's book on "Marriages, Shack-ups and Other Disasters."

Answer 2

Most of the time a married man is not going to leave his wife and children. The reason for this is because no matter what he tells the affair partner he does love his wife and kids. He may tell you that he loves you but to me unless he moves out and divorces his wife he doesn't really love you,and you my dear are in essense a booty call when he needs alittle extra on the side. If his wife finds out,and she will, be sure of that,he will drop you faster than can be imagined. What I mean by that will be no phone calls,no texts,no nothing..NADA. I know you don't believe me girl but please listen,your number two on his list his wife will always be number one and the reason why is because she was worth marrying and he thinks your not. Yes,he may tell you he loves you while you and he are rolling around in the sack,but you know what that is..he;ll tell you anything to get into your pants. Kick him to the curb,dust yourself off and get a single man.. the married one has too much baggage and will never completely be yours. And remember the wife will always be number one,and the kids will always be his first family getting what they need before any child you and he would or will have together,your child will be second and have to wait for the new pair of shoes because child in family one needs a pair and will get them first. This is a reality check I hope for you. Think about the future with him living second.

Answer 3

He doesnt love the wife or mistress or hr would only have one and if hes a cheater why wouldnt he cheat on the mistress? Hes not to be trusted I would stay away love takes time but its worth being the only one.and thry will lie and make excuses to why they cheat fyi

Answer 4

Cheating is wrong. You should be in an honest open relationship instead.