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A woman should know instinctively, but sometimes instincts are clouded by other things, attraction, passion and whatnot. While being used "as a sex object" can be rather flattering initially, it gets old very fast. Generally speaking if you ask him the direct question, he will deceive you, so save your breath. The logical way to discern his true intentions is to be brutally honest ( dishonesty destroys more relationships than any other issue) Tell him that his behaviour has left you wondering if he is using you just for sex or not. Do not lie and make up excuses, headache, not in the mood, etc. If you do that you will only frustrate his sex drive and annoy him. Tell him you wish to cool off the sexual part of your interaction for a bit, and see if it can continue and grow without sex being a focal point. His response to this suggestion will likely clear up any doubts you may have about what attractions he feels for you.

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