How do you know if she is cheating?

Answer 1

This is an extremely hard one because some people can be very evasive and sneaky about it and cover their tracks well. People who have to travel in their jobs have much more freedom to cheat on their mate, but not all people do cheat even after given the opportunity.

Here are some signs of possible cheating (these are the tried and true rules):

Working a lot of over-time and you can never get them by office phone or cell.

Forgetting important dates with you or special events in your life.

Always being late for dinner and never phoning to let you know they will be late. If anything this is a lack of respect for your time.

You can never get the person no matter where you phone.

The person cheating becomes distant and their minds seem to be on other things (constantly!)

Then their is the older .. the smell of perfume on their clothing or lipstick on a piece of their clothing.

Now, before you read the above and accuse your mate of cheating, be sure you can either validate or not they are not working late. Some men especially are terrible at remembering birthdays, anniversaries, etc. If they are abscent minded they can have a lot on their mind regarding work.

The best policy is to sit and communicate with your mate. If they are cheating and refuse to admit to it then they know you are onto them, and you may get a reprieve from this, but old habits are hard to break.

As I say, catching someone cheating is very hard, so tread carefully and keep your ears and eyes open and be sure you have evidence before you accuse your mate. If not, and your mate really isn't cheating then you have broken a bond of trust with them.

Answer 2

# Keep an eye on spending. Often, having a romantic affair can greatly change spending habits. For a girlfriend or wife, it may mean less money spent on daily meals, since a boyfriend may be buying lunches frequently, or for a guy, he may be buying flowers or lunches, or even paying for an apartment or motel room. # Look for the ordinary things, like lipstick on his collar, or her returning home with different odors on her person. # Telephone often, just to chat, and listen to background noises. If the significant other is at work, you should be able to associate the background sounds to their job. You may also catch a hint of something in their voice that tells you they are not comfortable talking. # Look at the mileage on their vehicle. If they are doing a lot of unexplained travelling, another clue has been discovered. # Listen to what their friends say when you are both around them. She/he may be telling you that they are spending time with their friend, then their friend may make a comment about how long it has been since they went out together. # Buy her some flowers, not exactly roses, but just flowers in general. # Have them delivered to her at work, but make sure that your name is NOT put onto the card, so she doesn't know who it's from. # When she comes home, if she still has the flowers and asks you if you sent them to her, she is probably faithful, but if she doesn't say a word, more then likely she's cheating on you. # Consider using "spy software" to gather evidence against your cheating spouse. Most cheating today involves email or IM communication. # If all this advice doesn't work just ask him/her upfront. If s/he won't tell you use guilt. After a while, s/he will just give up and tell you. # Don't be too hard on your mate if s/he tells you yes. Ask her questions like why s/he was cheating. Try to understand him/her. # If s/he is really that bad don't be afraid to just dump him/her. You should try to understand her first but if you can't, don't feel bad. # Look for obvious changes in behavior; If he/she usually has a set time for getting home from work and all the sudden, there are "after work meetings" or sudden trips to Walmart at odd hours # Sudden Changes in dress, hairstyle, sexual activity (More OR less) These changes could be indicitive of him or her trying to attract or please someone new # Sleeping with their cell suddenly "Hello, what are you hiding" # Obviously if you walk in on them in the act, they are cheating. # Pick up the book, Ultimate Betrayal: Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing with Infidelity. It's a step by step guide to help you find out if he/she is cheating on you. It's written by an investigator and infidelity Survivor.

Answer 3

you don't ever kno...your always blind at first...there are different ways to cheat on someone nd most ways arent noticable but if they want to cheat on you they will in any way possible without you noticing that's life

Answer 4

It has been my experience that if you think they are, they probably are. You can hire a PI, follow them yourself, plant traps, do some snooping, but ultimately if there is doubt in your heart it is always going to be there whether they really are cheating on you or not. Try confronting them.

If someone's cheating on you they are normally:

*very secretive

*they always talk about other "friends"

*they let u do most of the talking

*they act like they don't really want to be with u...or got tired of dating u

*they seem kinda mean to u

*they get really defensive wen u ask them or tal about them cheating

* they aren't very nice

Answer 5

Is he/she not interested in you anymore? Like phone calls or your dates? That's a pretty good sign that somethings wrong! Or if he/she doesnt answer your phone calls or texts when you know he/she is there? That's another good sign! You can just tell if he/she is just being plain mean to you! And if this does happen to you stand up for yourself!!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

If she looks good and all of the man stare at her.

or if she is ignoring you and talking about other guys alot

Answer 8

Anytime they accuse you of cheating on them is the best indicator that they in fact, are cheating on you. The old saying, when you point a finger at someone, there are 3 pointing back at you.

Answer 9

when they tell you over the phone

Answer 10

Smell their underwear.