How do you know if you have fallen for your friend with benefits and how do you tell her you may have feelings for her?

Answer 1

"Friends with benefits" in my opinion is an act of covering up true feelings. Anyway, just tell her how you really feel and let her know you want to keep doing what you're doing, but as an "item". It'll probably feel really weird because nothing will change since a relationship has started and the element of surprise of "moving forward" is gone.

Answer 2

When the time you spend together turns from rockus love making to long conversations and talks about her problems and other crap, and before you know it your going places with her and doing **** you don't wanna do. As soon as you start doing **** she wants ( not sexually) and not doing what you want, its gone too far on the relationship spectrum. Friends with beni's almost never works because someone will fall for the other and then the other person will want space, and before you know a good thing goes to ****.